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Docreed2003

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12. I similarly grew up in a southern state that has morphed from blue to deep red
Sun Jan 1, 2017, 07:35 PM
Jan 2017

I grew up on a tobacco farm in TN. My grandparents were staunch Roosevelt Democrats and extremely liberal given the time period they grew up in. As a teenager, I had witnessed the slowly creeping evangelical political movment in rural churches and watched as people who had good "common sense" became brain washed by their religious leaders and politicians. My hometown is just north of Nashville and, although I loved the area and the people dearly, I swore when I left after high school I would never come back. Until this year, I had kept that promise to myself for 20 yrs. I served time in the Navy after completing residency in General Surgery, and then moved to RI for several years. I adored my time in New England and miss that area and the more liberal/secular worldview and the culture melting pot it afforded for our family. Due to a series of events, we needed to move closer to family, my wife is from Louisiana. We were ultimately recruited by the hospital that I was born in and have settled back in the area that I swore I'd never live in. Although much is the same, the area is very different and has grown rapidly with the growth of the greater Nashville area. However, it's very...VERY red here. We're adjusting to the change, and I am very happy with my job and being able to serve the people here, especially those from the rural communities where I was raised. That being said, most of our social interactions are with either friends and family in Nashville who are like minded and active in the political/music scene or my very small group of lifelong friends who happen to live near by that also think similarly. We've learned through our kids activities that anything more than superficial interactions with other families is pretty futile for the most part. Ironically most people make it easier for you when either they immediately start throwing out RW BS in casual conversation or they ask "Where do you go to church?" Minutes after meeting them. We're very happy here, but our social activities outside our immediate family are much smaller than they ever were either in the military or in RI.

you become a social recluse Horse with no Name Jan 2017 #1
Yeah, I think I would. BigDemVoter Jan 2017 #3
I did. n/t Different Drummer Jan 2017 #4
me too. n/a Horse with no Name Jan 2017 #6
Definitely that. QED Jan 2017 #9
I am a social recluse and I like it. kickitup Jan 2017 #15
and you haunt DU for relief Sunriser13 Jan 2017 #35
Are there any people of color? vlyons Jan 2017 #2
I grew up in the same town as you. Cracklin Charlie Jan 2017 #5
You be true to yourself. easttexaslefty Jan 2017 #7
I do agree with you. BigDemVoter Jan 2017 #8
I am in a family of former Democrats who are now mesmerized by Thinkingabout Jan 2017 #10
Are there a lot of fights at the dinner table? BigDemVoter Jan 2017 #11
No, when they start I give facts and then I ask if there is something I could say Thinkingabout Jan 2017 #16
I similarly grew up in a southern state that has morphed from blue to deep red Docreed2003 Jan 2017 #12
Enjoyed your post. I can't imagine moving back to my birthplace. I have made the promise too. Missn-Hitch Jan 2017 #19
Thank You! Happy New Year to you and yours!! Docreed2003 Jan 2017 #20
Years ago I moved to a red town. safeinOhio Jan 2017 #13
Ugh. What is your impression of the UU church? Missn-Hitch Jan 2017 #21
Love that one, safeinOhio Jan 2017 #24
I know! I had to move back down there in 2012. . . . BigDemVoter Jan 2017 #23
1500 people in my small Kentucky town. My adult sons are constantly telling us to get out. kickitup Jan 2017 #14
What do you do? LWolf Jan 2017 #17
You do not talk politics mcar Jan 2017 #18
You go to work, you come home...same as anywhere USA ileus Jan 2017 #22
The letter from Pelosi and Shumer about Sanders'... LAS14 Jan 2017 #25
first step, find your local party. If you don't know anyone on the central OhioBlue Jan 2017 #31
Avoid politics liberal N proud Jan 2017 #26
We keep to ourselves. femmocrat Jan 2017 #27
Red state survival.... Dawgman49 Jan 2017 #28
You learn to be southern belle like blue cat Jan 2017 #29
I'm in rural North Alabama sarah FAILIN Jan 2017 #30
I honestly find it hard to understand why anyone would stay. PoindexterOglethorpe Jan 2017 #32
I live in Walker, AJT Jan 2017 #33
the beauty is Skittles Jan 2017 #34
You work to turn your state blue Gothmog Jan 2017 #36
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