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hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
Fri Jun 23, 2017, 03:26 PM Jun 2017

UPDATE: An update on my sister's cancer diagnosis [View all]

First, my great thanks to all for the warmth, prayers, vibes, light and good thoughts that I received through DU. I love my DU family and I know that I can always come here for sensibility, compassion and friendship. Know that I appreciate that.

I had posted about my sister's illness here:

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029241288

We have now received the diagnosis and results of the PET scan and it is not good, unfortunately. The cancer is Stage IV colon cancer and it has spread to some areas of the chest and some areas of the abdomen. She has already had surgery to remove the actual tumor. The oncologist feels that, with proper treatment, she has some time left. We are grateful for that.

We are beginning the process of trying to figure out how we can afford to get her the treatment that she needs to prolong her life. Know that I, and all members of my family, are tenacious and dedicated and strong. We will go down every rabbit hole, we will call every phone number, we will leave no stones unturned as we try to get my sister the help that she needs.

I find it ironic that the timing of this coincides with the release of the details of Trumpcare. If I wasn't convinced before that Republicans hate poor people, well, I am now. And I was convinced already - that fact was merely clarified again with the release of the details of Trumpcare.

I am going to keep saying this until my last breath - NO PERSON, whether wealthy or poor, whether Black or White, whether male or female, whether young or old, whether good or bad - whatever - should EVER be denied care to sustain their life when care that would sustain that life exists. What in the hell do we have medical research for if not to sustain quality of life?

We need single payer now. We need to stop accepting anything less. We must demand it. We must be the vehicle for change. We must be the force. And we must not stop until we get every single person in America covered for health care. Not access - but actual coverage.

I invite you each to stand with me. I am in Texas and my fight is going to be a hard one. But I will not be silenced. I will be vocal, and I will be insistent.

I know my family is certainly not the only family facing this. I know there are many. It makes me so sad and it hurts a great deal knowing that a whole political party - actual human beings - don't care, hell, don't even acknowledge, that there will be needless suffering and pain. Callous assholes.

But rest assured, as our numbers grow, so shall our voices for change. It will take time. But we will win. We will win because we are never going to stop until we get single payer. Because it is the right thing to do.

And I hope that when those times come that I need a shoulder to cry on, someone to set me straight with factual information, or those times when I just need to know that others understand - that I can come to DU for that. I know I can count on that.

I thank you all for the fact that you care about one another and that you care about humanity. I cannot believe that I live in a world where some people do not care. THAT is what makes us different!

With love and friendship,

Hamsterjill

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To you! Timmygoat Jun 2017 #1
Thank you very much. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #19
Peace and blessings to you and your family. We will be here for you Tanuki Jun 2017 #2
I know you will. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #20
I agree wholeheartedly Blueplanet Jun 2017 #3
Good analogy. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #16
You sure would be spot-on about that - CONS have no empathy or compassion. calimary Jun 2017 #62
Thank you, calimary. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #64
Stay as strong as you can democrank Jun 2017 #4
Thank you much. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #21
Thinking of You, Your Sister, Your Family. furtheradu Jun 2017 #5
Appreciate that! hamsterjill Jun 2017 #22
I went through the exact same thing with my sister Sugarcoated Jun 2017 #6
I'm sorry you had to go through it. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #23
The hardest thing I've ever gone through Sugarcoated Jun 2017 #68
I'm so sorry the news wasn't good renate Jun 2017 #7
You are absolutely right. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #49
I'm soo sorry, Hamsterjill LeftInTX Jun 2017 #8
Thank you. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #12
Set up a GO FUND ME page for her! Tell her story, MojoWrkn Jun 2017 #9
I'm somewhat familiar with scleroderma...I did not know this about stem cells LeftInTX Jun 2017 #11
Our family is hosting a couple from TX this weekend who are driving through to MojoWrkn Jun 2017 #39
I am grateful she received help!!! hamsterjill Jun 2017 #17
Devastating news -- so sorry elfin Jun 2017 #10
We are looking into clinical trials. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #24
... spanone Jun 2017 #13
What about that Texas, huh? catrose Jun 2017 #14
Thank you for sharing that information! hamsterjill Jun 2017 #18
Thank you--to you and your sister also n/t catrose Jun 2017 #40
Catrose!!!! hamsterjill Jun 2017 #43
Thanks! catrose Jun 2017 #45
My understanding is that when one is diagnosed with cancer......... mrmpa Jun 2017 #15
NEVER count on getting Social Security Disability - it AIN'T easy! MojoWrkn Jun 2017 #41
It's the diagnosis, in this case cancer......... mrmpa Jun 2017 #42
Scleroderma is also fatal if not treated and she underwent MojoWrkn Jun 2017 #61
Similar situation with my cousin. Hell Hath No Fury Jun 2017 #25
We are looking into all possibilities. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #50
Sending peace and hugs to you, your sister and family. gademocrat7 Jun 2017 #26
Thank you much. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #51
Even if they manage to pass that no health care for po' peeples bill , Ligyron Jun 2017 #27
Sorry to hear about the bad news. I will continue to send thoughts and prayers mvd Jun 2017 #28
Thank you for sharing that. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #34
Thank you! mvd Jun 2017 #37
May I add that a friend of mine with an aggressive, terminal cancer has Nay Jun 2017 #56
Thank you! hamsterjill Jun 2017 #59
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family, hamsterjill! Different Drummer Jun 2017 #29
Much appreciated. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #52
Best wishes and thoughts to your sister, to you and to your family. (nt) B Stieg Jun 2017 #30
Pro life? mgardener Jun 2017 #31
They don't dflprincess Jun 2017 #46
I am so sorry about the news you have received about your sister. smirkymonkey Jun 2017 #32
Thank you. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #53
I'm so sorry that you have to experience cancer Marthe48 Jun 2017 #33
Thank you. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #35
I have more and will be glad to research Marthe48 Jun 2017 #36
Your sister is in my prayers. n/t totodeinhere Jun 2017 #38
Thank you. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #54
I wish only the best for her, you and your family. irisblue Jun 2017 #44
I know you do. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #55
Your sister should, of course, do whatever she feels is best. Ms. Toad Jun 2017 #47
I couldn't agree more. hamsterjill Jun 2017 #48
prayers for your sisters life and recovery, the current conservative culture is ignorant and toxic YCHDT Jun 2017 #57
Thoughts and prayers TrishaJ Jun 2017 #58
I will keep your sister, & everyone around her, in my thoughts. CaptainTruth Jun 2017 #60
Thoughts and prayers for your whole family Stuart G Jun 2017 #63
love and prayers and the most positive, loving thoughts coming for all of you. your du niyad Jun 2017 #65
I'm so, sorry. I don't know wha else to say... lunamagica Jun 2017 #66
(((Hugs to you both))) Solly Mack Jun 2017 #67
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