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ColemanMaskell

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25. Also that effect you mention is not confined to athletic situations
Sat Oct 1, 2016, 01:59 AM
Oct 2016

It is common for a victim to be further persecuted for reporting the offense.

This seems to me most tragic in the cases where children are involved. An important common occurrence of this is when a stepfather, or a mother's boyfriend, assaults a child (or children) from a previous marriage, that is, pre-existing children of whom he is not the biological father. The child reports the assault(s). Too often the mother blames the child.

It isn't only children, though, and it isn't confined to rape cases.

Coincidentally enough, Trump is currently trying to accuse his long-suffering Democratic opponent of persecuting the women with whom her ex-husband allegedly had affairs. I doubt that happened, but I'm pretty sure there are analogous cases where wives do go after the women involved with their husbands, consensually or otherwise.

An athlete is in the situation of having a group around him that will rally immediately to his defense, regardless of whether he's guilty. However celebrities, rich people, people with family connections and so on are in a similar situation of having a ready group handy to spring to their defense, however inappropriate that reaction may be in a specific case.

It's a good point you make, and one that doesn't get enough attention. Fear of such persecution often makes victims reluctant to report assaults, enabling the perpetrator to continue and even emboldening him to escalate his offenses.

"Don't worry about a thing, son. Just salute the flag at the next game, Aristus Sep 2016 #1
More like a privileged athlete exercising his privilege. jalan48 Sep 2016 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author Dream Girl Sep 2016 #8
It was in the newspaper. Three players were kicked off the team after a gang rape at a party. jalan48 Sep 2016 #18
Your question comes across as rude. spooky3 Oct 2016 #28
as usual, the treatment she received from the university was disgusting. niyad Sep 2016 #3
According to her. She may have expected them to go full Mike Nifong on the accused. Akicita Sep 2016 #4
No one on this site has the capacity to convict anyone LanternWaste Sep 2016 #5
Speculation that reinforces group think biases can be far from benign and can have Akicita Sep 2016 #6
And doing what you said continues rape culture obamanut2012 Sep 2016 #14
How does following the evidence before passing judgement, which is what I advocate, Akicita Sep 2016 #19
Does your sense of justice extend to actual rape victims who are further victimized by sports fans? radicalliberal Sep 2016 #7
I am a woman who has been assaulted more than once, however I don't have a knee jerk reaction Dream Girl Sep 2016 #9
lolz obamanut2012 Sep 2016 #15
Good point. Tangential but worth keeping in mind. ColemanMaskell Sep 2016 #13
Thank you. radicalliberal Sep 2016 #22
Also that effect you mention is not confined to athletic situations ColemanMaskell Oct 2016 #25
Thanks again for the compliment. radicalliberal Oct 2016 #27
Of course. I think sports fans who further victimize rape victims are just as vile and despicable as Akicita Sep 2016 #20
Does this look like consensual sex? tblue37 Sep 2016 #10
It's possible. ColemanMaskell Sep 2016 #12
Wow -- An actual, unabashed rape apologist on DU obamanut2012 Sep 2016 #16
It's for a court to decide, and calling me names doesn't change that ColemanMaskell Oct 2016 #24
Ouch, that's brutal. Calista241 Sep 2016 #21
He may actual believe it was consensual even if it wasn't ColemanMaskell Sep 2016 #11
Up thread you poo-poo the horrific injuries she sustained while being raped obamanut2012 Sep 2016 #17
I'm saying there are two sides to every story and he's innocent until proven guilty ColemanMaskell Oct 2016 #23
After what happened deathrind Oct 2016 #26
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