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happyslug

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55. Again that quote is to Bundling not sex
Fri Jul 19, 2013, 06:10 PM
Jul 2013


All I can find on Graham vs Smith is a foot note in "Abbott's Cyclopedic Digest of All the Decisions of All the Courts ..., Volume 11" in regards to "Seduction"

http://books.google.com/books?id=smhJAAAAYAAJ&pg=PA1043&lpg=PA1043&dq=Graham+vs+Smith,+1+Edm.Sel.Cas.+267+(N.Y.+1846),&source=bl&ots=u8ygJwR5PT&sig=mxMz2AvXCEncsRBO8quEC_wQVAs&hl=en&sa=X&ei=NqHpUaeKF-XA4APusYGACw&ved=0CEcQ6AEwBA#v=onepage&q=Graham%20vs%20Smith%2C%201%20Edm.Sel.Cas.%20267%20(N.Y.%201846)%2C&f=false

The footnote cites Graham vs Smith but as a foot note to the following sentence:

"Connivance by a Parent is a bar, and his negligence may be considered in mitigation.

The Foot notes goes as follows:

"and his negligence respecting it. without actual asset, may be considered is estimating the damages"

I check Lexis, and the case is NOT in Lexis. Lexis has a lot of Cases of Seduction but there are all Court of Appeals cases, not trial cases. Graham vs Smith looks like a case no one ever filed an appeal on. It was still printed in Edmonds Selected Cases, but those are not on Lexis

This appeals to be a New York "Supreme Court" decision. In New York is what New York Calls its "Supreme Court" is what everyone else calls its "Court of Common Pleas" or "County Court" or if you from California "Superior Court", thus I can not read the actual opinion. Given that I can not say for certain what was discussed in that opinion, especially as to how bundling was done. Given the above comments from c1900 legal encyclopedia I suspect Bundling was mentioned, even discussed and if it lead to the seduction grounds to reduce any liability of the seducer to the father of the woman seduced. On the other hand, the decision could point out how bundling actually worked and was NOT a factor in that case (and the no appeal was taken, but it was a reported case, tends to make me think bundling was discussed but then held not to be a factor UNLESS it shows negligence by the father in permitting his daughter in being seduced.

Now, Lexis had several cases on Seduction and that a Father could recover from the Seducer for any lost of Service from his daughter due to the seduction (including the loss do to the daughter being pregnant). Those cases also found that the action of the Father for lost of Services of the daughter was independent of the daughter's right to file for support of the child from the seducer. The action was based on Master Servant law, i.e employment law, i.e. the harm incurred by the Father for loss of the ability of the Daughter to work. If the daughter was working for someone else, the Father could not recover, even if the employer was the seducer UNLESS the father loss some income due to the seduction (i.e. for example when the actual employer of the daughter, sent the daughter back to the father and refused to pay the father the contract wages he had promised, that lost of income the Father could recover from the seducer).

Reading those cases, make me thank that I live post WWII and those types of cases are no longer heard for most teenage women no longer contract with employers to pay part of their income to their parents.

Back to Graham vs Smith. From the above sentence and footnote I suspect the issue in Graham was that the father had left the seducer bundle with his daughter and the Seducer said that is when he had sex with her. The Daughter said yes she bundled with the seducer, but he talked her into sex LATER ON, outside the hearing of her father AFTER the bundling. Being a question of fact not law no appeal was possible (You can only appeal issues of law in the US, not issues of fact, which are reserved to the jury). Thus it was up to the Jury to decide which set of facts occurred and for that reason the Judge permitted in testimony of bundling and how it was done.

My problem is the sources I have seen mention the case, then mentioned that the case mentioned bundling but then does NOT cite the actual language of the case. It is clearly a case of Seduction, but how Bundling was involved is not reported in the cites I have seen. I suspect it was a factor as to WHEN the sex occurred the Seducer said he did it while bundled and thus the Father agreed to the sex, the Father saying, no sex was done while bundled for given the layout of the house and the location of the couple there was no way for them to have sex without him or someone else in the household knowing about it. As I said above, the above would be a finding of fact and once the Jury decided one way or another, that would end the case.

That bundling was an issue would support the argument that bundling in 1846 did NOT mean a board between the couple or that they were sewed in and could not touch, but that they laid together fully clothed, could talk and snuggle but no actual sex.

I would like to read the actual case for it would be a good source, but these comments about the case shows nothing.
Is "I married a Cuccinelli" a legitimate cause for divorce? Scuba Jul 2013 #1
Does that mean Virginia is going to bring back bundling boards? sinkingfeeling Jul 2013 #2
Such beds and sacks were ENGLISH not American, and appears to be Victorian not Colonial happyslug Jul 2013 #28
Not according to several Google hits. sinkingfeeling Jul 2013 #30
Questionable links happyslug Jul 2013 #43
First hand accounts--testimony, perhaps? MADem Jul 2013 #46
Again that quote is to Bundling not sex happyslug Jul 2013 #55
I was confused, thought that's where you interest lay--the bundling, not the sex. nt MADem Jul 2013 #68
Why is this important to you? I don't really care, but do know that my great sinkingfeeling Jul 2013 #49
I like history. happyslug Jul 2013 #56
not so according to a friend who does historical research wordpix Jul 2013 #81
Have you seen the houses of Colonial Lower classes????? happyslug Jul 2013 #84
Kick & highly recommended. William769 Jul 2013 #3
Another poor guy with obvious s-e-x problems. dixiegrrrrl Jul 2013 #4
I would expect better of someone with the last name "Cooch..." but he's a Repub. n/t appal_jack Jul 2013 #11
Next: Foreplay leads to homosexuality. longship Jul 2013 #5
"Self abuse"?...I hafta say truth2power Jul 2013 #17
Yup, "self abuse". longship Jul 2013 #21
No, MARIJUANA leads to homosexuality. Eleanors38 Jul 2013 #36
I was going to reply, but zbdent Jul 2013 #61
From the "Party of Less Government" KansDem Jul 2013 #6
Yeah. Isn't that rich? calimary Jul 2013 #32
no, they only meant that govt should leave corporations alone. our private lives, especially niyad Jul 2013 #80
How on earth is this a winning campaign strategy?? BrotherIvan Jul 2013 #7
When you get married you will be registered as a sex offender. L0oniX Jul 2013 #8
I have been offended and given offense many times, but still haven't married... Eleanors38 Jul 2013 #38
Cover your keyholes! madamesilverspurs Jul 2013 #9
ROFLMAO! SoapBox Jul 2013 #13
No 69's .... truth2power Jul 2013 #15
It amazes me that these A-holes grouse about "big government" Triana Jul 2013 #10
Yeah butt.... Plucketeer Jul 2013 #12
I thought SoapBox Jul 2013 #14
LOL Plucketeer Jul 2013 #18
Putting aside the fact that the law is unconstitutional and beyond stupid, okwmember Jul 2013 #16
It's NOT that it's right, wrong or somewhere in between Plucketeer Jul 2013 #22
And they better not be football fans... calimary Jul 2013 #33
Besides that they want to ban oral sex, Iliyah Jul 2013 #19
Stupid homophobe, power hungry bastard lark Jul 2013 #29
They might monitor Chaturbate.com I guess. Kablooie Jul 2013 #57
Really makes you wonder what he's hiding in his basement. Initech Jul 2013 #20
This will bring about the first cynzke Jul 2013 #23
Well congress is already sucking corporate &$%#. L0oniX Jul 2013 #25
humina humina! This needs to be discussed with my buddy Edward "Ed" Lillywhite Norton. AAO Jul 2013 #24
Any sex act which does not have the potential of producing children . . . another_liberal Jul 2013 #26
Also sex with any man who has had a vasectomy and any woman who has had mbperrin Jul 2013 #58
I am surprised Perry hasn't jumped into this one yet. another_liberal Jul 2013 #71
I think they are confusing a few psychotic billionaires who hand out dollars mbperrin Jul 2013 #74
Figures. He only wants you to have the least enjoyable type of sex... SunSeeker Jul 2013 #65
There's that good ol' christx30 Jul 2013 #27
Since when are you politicians entitled to patrol our bedrooms, sir? calimary Jul 2013 #31
No touching! Babel_17 Jul 2013 #34
Pftthhhh. They can pry my GF's cooter off of my cold dead mouth. cliffordu Jul 2013 #35
I didn't see anything in that law about necrophilia.... n/t whopis01 Jul 2013 #73
Why is it so important to him this law be passed? AsahinaKimi Jul 2013 #37
He can use it against his political enemies 47of74 Jul 2013 #59
Because they use this law EC Jul 2013 #76
First they came after the people having anal sex, and I did not protest because.... JPZenger Jul 2013 #39
Here's more on this story, including Video from O'Donnell on MSNBC JPZenger Jul 2013 #40
The only legal sex in Virginia JPZenger Jul 2013 #50
I just can't fathom why anybody cares what other consenting adults do in bed. MadrasT Jul 2013 #41
No blowjobs? Then what will elected Republicans do in airport men's rooms? nt onehandle Jul 2013 #42
Then what will elected Republicans do in airport men's rooms? Flashmann Jul 2013 #78
Yell out that they love their wives. 47of74 Jul 2013 #82
He heard someone say "Virginia Sucks!" and felt he had to respond... jtuck004 Jul 2013 #44
ROFL DebJ Jul 2013 #72
Cuccinelli says "Keep your tongue off my Virginia!" tclambert Jul 2013 #45
1976 SNL Skit - US Supreme Court looks under the sheets to check for illegal sex JPZenger Jul 2013 #47
How does the Republican part even still exist? pauliedangerously Jul 2013 #48
Preachers. FiveGoodMen Jul 2013 #51
Only biters coljam Jul 2013 #52
Unless they're into that sort of thing. 47of74 Jul 2013 #85
Crutchinelli has penus envy Rosa Luxemburg Jul 2013 #53
There's so much work to do on real issues in this country SirRevolutionary Jul 2013 #54
Wouldn't that make what the Republicans and CONSERVATIVE DEMOCRATS do for their zbdent Jul 2013 #60
They will of course make exceptions for corporations. While corporations are people, my friend, tclambert Jul 2013 #69
Try and stop me, a**h***! crim son Jul 2013 #62
Jesus H Christ! AlbertCat Jul 2013 #63
This affects straight people, too. blkmusclmachine Jul 2013 #64
Sounds like Cuccinelli has issues with Santorum Blue Owl Jul 2013 #66
"Hey Ken, hold this for me, willya?" AtheistCrusader Jul 2013 #67
Paging Dan Savage... (nt) ehrnst Jul 2013 #70
If there is good constant advertising EC Jul 2013 #75
Not jobs, not health, not welfare, not environment... but *this* is what they find important. gtar100 Jul 2013 #77
An inspired graphic, EarlG! Cooley Hurd Jul 2013 #79
Virginia is for awkward, 1 minute, missionary sex between a man and woman of the same race. dairydog91 Jul 2013 #83
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