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Duppers

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16. I agree! This bipetual thinks a lot of these assertions
Fri Oct 18, 2019, 10:25 AM
Oct 2019

are off.

Sadly, hubby and I no longer have a kitty in the family because he developed severe allergies to them decades ago. (We found the best home for our last younger kitty who lived to be 21, btw, - her new mom was a pediatrician.)

However, we both LOVE both species but favor dogs a bit more because they're much more attentive to humans and are way less selfish. Dogs will protect their humans even if it means risking their own lives. Cats?...sorry, folks.

Dogs are pack oriented and will therefore protect all members of the family, including "their" cats. One of our sweet pups once defended and chased off a dog who was chasing "her" kitty. She loved her kitty and vice versa - they grew up together. That's the secret to a cat's loving and fully accepting a dog - they must bond as kittens, otherwise, it often seems a bit hopeless.

Personality wise? Hubby, a big dog person, is rather painfully introverted. And me? I'm a very caring, more outgoing/ outspoken but untolerant asshole. As DUers know, that's not a contradiction in terms. Hubby's painful shyness rather gets on my nerves. (Folks think he's a saint but don't know what he says in private.) Conclusion: the article's assertions do not apply to us.

Well ain't I the greatest thing eva since I love them BOTH! nt UniteFightBack Oct 2019 #1
Me, too....plus all other living beings! n/t Peregrine Took Oct 2019 #2
we have 2 of each and are all over the map on the assumptions NRaleighLiberal Oct 2019 #3
That was my point, it just doesn't fit for a lot of people. smirkymonkey Oct 2019 #4
You are absolutely, 1000% wrong about cats not being affectionate. The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2019 #5
As I try to type that I agree with you, my Himmie is sitting on my lap, licking my hand spooky3 Oct 2019 #7
It's funny because cats will come up to me and cuddle with me, but then they turn on smirkymonkey Oct 2019 #8
Cats can be overstimulated from being petted too much, The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2019 #9
I guess that must be it. I can't really read them, but I can read dogs very easily. smirkymonkey Oct 2019 #11
I think one reason some people have issues with cats is that The Velveteen Ocelot Oct 2019 #12
Are you me? klook Oct 2019 #15
I'm a cat lover but I also like dogs a lot. 50 Shades Of Blue Oct 2019 #6
It's funny, but there are some cats that have very dog-like behavior and some dogs that have cat smirkymonkey Oct 2019 #10
This bipetual would generally agree with those assertions. yonder Oct 2019 #13
I love cats AND dogs Skittles Oct 2019 #14
I agree! This bipetual thinks a lot of these assertions Duppers Oct 2019 #16
I guess that is what I was expecting to hear from people. That the article's assertions were smirkymonkey Oct 2019 #17
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