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Response to Ineeda (Reply #5)

Wed Jul 11, 2012, 03:01 PM

15. Also

If she says something rude to you, put her on the spot by saying "Why would you say that?" or "Why would you say something like that?" Or if it is downright truly offensive, "Why on earth would you say something like that?" This gives you some time to collect yourself (from being shocked by her rudeness) to formulate a reply and maintain control. You put her on the spot by having to explain her rude remarks. Good luck. I think time is on your side. Don't let her negative feelings overpower your positive ones though or yours will become negative as well. (((HUGS)))

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