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In my experince, people like this aren't going to change because you are nice to them Major Nikon Jul 2012 #1
Ignore completely as much as possible. n/t ellisonz Jul 2012 #2
Try and be with a friend lovemydog Jul 2012 #3
Google the word bully lunatica Jul 2012 #4
The two best ways to disarm someone, from my experience, Ineeda Jul 2012 #5
+1 Scuba Jul 2012 #7
Also TuxedoKat Jul 2012 #15
Great post! I'm going to use your advice on a rude woman I know in a 12 step program. nt raccoon Jul 2012 #22
Thanks TuxedoKat Jul 2012 #26
Pay attention, learn, and present an unexpected gift. HopeHoops Jul 2012 #6
Best pipi_k Jul 2012 #8
I do the same with agressive dogs. I just treat them like my favorite pet. HopeHoops Jul 2012 #10
Good advice TuxedoKat Jul 2012 #27
Hope this helps you its helped me. turtlerescue1 Jul 2012 #9
I don't understand what you mean. raccoon Jul 2012 #11
Sometimes you have to strain to imagine.... turtlerescue1 Jul 2012 #16
Google "workplace bullying". Good suggestions here, esp. #8. nt raccoon Jul 2012 #12
Courtesy and professionalism lastlib Jul 2012 #13
My last rude co-worker libodem Jul 2012 #14
Try all of the above NV Whino Jul 2012 #17
I worked with someone similar for quite a while AmyDeLune Jul 2012 #18
This is great advice. raccoon Jul 2012 #23
I had that experience once............ mrmpa Jul 2012 #19
Tell her that she looks exactly like the last girl you worked with who mysteriously disappeared Ikonoklast Jul 2012 #20
You're handling it just right but... Fridays Child Jul 2012 #21
Yes, document all the rude/hostile things she does or says. Keep this documentation somewhere raccoon Jul 2012 #24
" I don't know what your problem is but I bet it's hard to pronounce" BlueCollar Jul 2012 #25
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