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In reply to the discussion: Wedding etiquette poll [View all]Phentex
(16,330 posts)would be thrilled! However, I am sure I would be disappointed because said baby will not actually sit in the chair and will more than likely be held by someone more closely related (although I am known for holding other people's babies at weddings so the guests can eat and enjoy themselves.)
I would NOT have fb anyone about this. I find that to be very rude. IF I had such concern, I would have called. I think the seating arrangements are none of your business really, even though you might have been able to express some concern but only IF it became a concern at the actual event.
Now you've gone and added stress to an already stressful situation. You are going for family's sake not because you are extremely close to the bride so I don't think you should have any say so in the seating. And if I were you, I'd call and apologize. That's just my ten cents.