Mrs. V.'s dad is moving to the nursing home today, and he doesn't know it

[Flaxbee]

8. It really is for the best - it sounds as if Mamaw V was close to the breaking point.

It is very hard not to be there during transitions - Mrs. V just needs some tenderness and understanding, which you doubtless provide to her. And Mamaw V is going to need a lot of attention at first - being alone like that, even if it is a relief, may be hard. Care packages, phone calls, etc. to you all. It is very hard to put a loved one into assisted living or nursing care, even if it's the best and safest thing for their health and well-being. Believe me, I have been through this before.