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23. This very question is driving me crazy.

Sat Nov 3, 2012, 09:27 PM

Nov 2012

I am contemplating retirement. For years I thought I couldn't wait to retire, but now I am facing all those days with nothing to do.

People say, do volunteer work.... but I haven't found anything that really interests me yet. I really like working and it makes me feel like I'm doing something worthwhile. I'm just getting too rickety to do the work anymore (elementary teacher) although I still try my darnedest! I haven't taken a sick day in over ten years (knock on wood)! But, oy, the pain!

I am waiting for a bolt of lightning or something to tell me what I should do.

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What would you do with your days? [View all] Helen Reddy Nov 2012 OP

Spend as much time in bed with my wife as I could. Wait. I already do that. HopeHoops Nov 2012 #1

Hah! n/t Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #7

Travel, art, eat. OriginalGeek Nov 2012 #2

What kind of art do you create, if I might ask? crunch60 Nov 2012 #19

I've been drawing since I was a kid OriginalGeek Nov 2012 #43

Probably the same thing I do already, providing health care in a clinic for our homeless population. Aristus Nov 2012 #3

Ha! I came back into this thread OriginalGeek Nov 2012 #5

Helen can be my candle over water any day... Aristus Nov 2012 #8

Awww Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #9

Thanks for responding. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #13

How could I not? Aristus Nov 2012 #18

the same things I do now when I'm not at work: MrsBrady Nov 2012 #4

The good food sounds great! Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #10

Hard to say... harmonicon Nov 2012 #6

Sounds fascinating Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #11

I don't know. It's just how I live my life. harmonicon Nov 2012 #17

Write and travel. And write about people I meet on my travels. nolabear Nov 2012 #12

Yes. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #14

I'd spend 20 hours a day in Meta. rug Nov 2012 #15

Hah! Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #16

Write, read, cook, garden, feed birds (well, feed any creature that wanted/needed a meal) Flaxbee Nov 2012 #20

You are a great friend! Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #21

:) Flaxbee Nov 2012 #22

This very question is driving me crazy. femmocrat Nov 2012 #23

The 'Man' Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #27

I don't necessarily agree.... femmocrat Nov 2012 #52

Your days of snoozing Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #54

It would probably involve a lot of beer...and a chauffeur. Tobin S. Nov 2012 #24

Sounds good to me. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #25

I went to see a lecture by Wayne Dyer. He's one of the oldies in the "new age" movement riderinthestorm Nov 2012 #32

go back to school. do more volunteer work. travel. Tuesday Afternoon Nov 2012 #26

Absolutely awesome! n/t Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #28

That is a conundrum for me. Lady Freedom Returns Nov 2012 #29

You are truly blessed. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #31

I have been, yet cursed as well. Lady Freedom Returns Nov 2012 #38

Your story is/was so vivid for me. I was with you in spirit as you walked. riderinthestorm Nov 2012 #40

Thank you. Lady Freedom Returns Nov 2012 #41

Indeed. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #44

It was great. Lady Freedom Returns Nov 2012 #50

Sounds like a culinary Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #55

farm handmade34 Nov 2012 #30

Envious! n/t Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #33

Man, that's what I do. Its backbreaking work. Are you sure??? nt riderinthestorm Nov 2012 #35

never been so sure handmade34 Nov 2012 #37

Good luck and PM me if you need any help. riderinthestorm Nov 2012 #39

Create a foundation and fund micro-projects riderinthestorm Nov 2012 #34

Your independent energy Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #36

I'm already doing what I want, my dear Helen Reddy... CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2012 #42

Yay! Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #45

I have been retired for almost 3 years. RebelOne Nov 2012 #46

Without money as the motivator... Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #48

How do your fill your days? femmocrat Nov 2012 #53

I would LWolf Nov 2012 #47

Gardening. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #49

Non-stop rockin'. Iggo Nov 2012 #51

You go Iggo! Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #56

I would do the one thing that I am best at doing. Ikonoklast Nov 2012 #57

Hah! Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #58

Probably what I'm doing now.. We are Devo Nov 2012 #59

Ohhhh. My sincere sympathies to your physical limitations. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #60

Yes indeed! n/t We are Devo Nov 2012 #61

I don't think I will ever be bored for long. klook Nov 2012 #62

Thank you for.. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #63

My days are so confused for so long it's not true, RedCloud Nov 2012 #64

I would travel. Still Blue in PDX Nov 2012 #65

Grand! n/t Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #73

Assuming I was filthy rich... Wait Wut Nov 2012 #66

Very noble passions! Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #74

If I could save time in a bottle...the first thing that I'd like to do Taverner Nov 2012 #67

Hah! Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #75

Whatever my kids wanted to do, at least for a long while. newcriminal Nov 2012 #68

All of you would do something Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #76

Ironically, I'm doing it. Chan790 Nov 2012 #69

I'm so pleased for the way Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #77

Endless world tour with my many bands and acts. MrSlayer Nov 2012 #70

Sadly that is true. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #78

I first would do as you, travel the world and learn and explore cultures, spend 6 months at a time zen_bohemian Nov 2012 #71

Your heart is pure. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #79

Depends on how much money I had to blow jp11 Nov 2012 #72

Yours Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #80

Write travel guides for the history buff... a la izquierda Nov 2012 #81

So many writers here on DU. Helen Reddy Nov 2012 #82

Thanks... a la izquierda Nov 2012 #83