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PETRUS

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20. My eyes are welling up. I've been there.
Fri Jan 13, 2012, 02:38 AM
Jan 2012

The Power of the Dog

There is sorrow enough in the natural way
From men and women to fill our day;
And when we are certain of sorrow in store,
Why do we always arrange for more?
Brothers and sisters, I bid you beware
Of giving your heart to a dog to tear.

Buy a pup and your money will buy
Love unflinching that cannot lie--
Perfect passion and worship fed
By a kick in the ribs or a pat on the head.
Nevertheless it is hardly fair
To risk your heart to a dog to tear.

When the fourteen years which Nature permits
Are closing in asthma, or tumour, or fits,
And the vet's unspoken prescription runs
To lethal chambers or loaded guns,
Then you will find--it's your own affair--
But ... you've given your heart to a dog to tear.


When the body that lived at your single will,
With its whimper of welcome, is stilled (how still!)
When the spirit that answered your every mood
Is gone--wherever it goes--for good,
You will discover how much you care,
And will give your heart to a dog to tear.


We've sorrow enough in the natural way,
When it comes to burying Christian clay.
Our loves are not given, but only lent,
At compound interest of cent per cent.
Though it is not always the case, I believe,
That the longer we've kept 'em, the more do we grieve:
For, when debts are payable, right or wrong,
A short-term loan is as bad as a long--
So why in--Heaven (before we are there)
Should we give our hearts to a dog to tear?

(((akbacchus_BC))) beac Jan 2012 #1
It was so hard last night. She thought we were taking for a walk. akbacchus_BC Jan 2012 #9
You were brave for her and let her go before she started to really suffer. beac Jan 2012 #49
I am so very sorry. Ruby the Liberal Jan 2012 #2
Thanks, am still crying! Beautiful pet and am still not able to stop crying! akbacchus_BC Jan 2012 #10
Take the time to cry. Ruby the Liberal Jan 2012 #13
Ruby, thanks, that is the hardest part! akbacchus_BC Jan 2012 #12
Now you've gone and done it---I am crying at work. Curmudgeoness Jan 2012 #46
Well then we are even. Ruby the Liberal Jan 2012 #47
so sorry kanda Jan 2012 #3
I had to do this many times. I'm very sorry for your loss. They are family members. Bigleaf Jan 2012 #4
Our baby could not use her hind legs anymore because of arthritis. German Shephard she was. It was akbacchus_BC Jan 2012 #14
I have put many pets down and had some that I should have Angry Dragon Jan 2012 #5
Thanks, She is now peaceful and not suffering. Once you want to have pets, you have to ensure you akbacchus_BC Jan 2012 #16
How old was she? itsrobert Jan 2012 #6
She was 13 years old and had arthritis on her left legs and pancreatic cancer akbacchus_BC Jan 2012 #11
Looks like the exact same for my dog itsrobert Jan 2012 #38
One of the hardest things I've ever had to do. Old and In the Way Jan 2012 #7
That is the horrible thing, when you know you have to do the right thing with your pets! akbacchus_BC Jan 2012 #17
Been through it several times. It always hurts, but I always know it's right. nolabear Jan 2012 #8
But you never know when it is the right time. It was so akbacchus_BC Jan 2012 #15
it's so hard fizzgig Jan 2012 #18
I know and thanks and there is a history to this pet. Her father passed away and we had akbacchus_BC Jan 2012 #19
My eyes are welling up. I've been there. PETRUS Jan 2012 #20
That was a nice response! akbacchus_BC Jan 2012 #21
End of Days: poem by Marge Piercy eridani Jan 2012 #22
Oh, I am so very sorry for you and your family kimi Jan 2012 #23
I am so sorry KT2000 Jan 2012 #24
Here is a link to another poster who went through the same thing today. I had to put applegrove Jan 2012 #25
I'm so very sorry TorchTheWitch Jan 2012 #26
Yes I've been there recently and it tore up my whole family Major Nikon Jan 2012 #27
I'm so sorry hobbit709 Jan 2012 #28
Peace to you - true love for your pet is knowing when it is time and helping them cross over... NRaleighLiberal Jan 2012 #29
You're right. That last trip in the car to the vet's is the hardest. canoeist52 Jan 2012 #30
This song has comforted me. roody Jan 2012 #31
I spoke with ... 99Forever Jan 2012 #32
I'm so sorry akbacchus_BC livetohike Jan 2012 #33
I am still not over our loss of our male cat 8 monhs ago rurallib Jan 2012 #34
They're family members who give us unconditional love Stinky The Clown Jan 2012 #35
no moving words dana_b Jan 2012 #36
I'm so, so sorry. polly7 Jan 2012 #37
I'm very, very sorry for your loss :-( Putting our babies to sleep is such an incredibly nirvana555 Jan 2012 #41
I am so sad for you and Nirmala graywarrior Jan 2012 #39
I'm so very sorry for your loss. bigwillq Jan 2012 #40
I am so sorry! hamsterjill Jan 2012 #42
I'm so sorry. Arugula Latte Jan 2012 #43
We are so sorry.... Tikki Jan 2012 #44
This is the sad part of owning a pet. Swede Jan 2012 #45
Had to put my beloved cocker down about madmom Jan 2012 #48
Yes, and it is heart-wrenching. RebelOne Jan 2012 #50
Good for you for having the strength to make this tough decision! hedgehog Jan 2012 #51
Our SOPHIE WENT TO CAT HEAVEN .... MAY 3, 2010 trueblue2007 Jan 2012 #52
I'm so sorry GoCubsGo Jan 2012 #53
The worst....we put our wiener dog, Weezee, down on September 12th..... a kennedy Jan 2012 #54
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