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In reply to the discussion: I need some advice from people who are cat savvy (UPDATED WITH PICTURES) [View all]riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)I would recommend carrying a squirt gun with h2o and use it if the big boy begins to try to dominate the situation. He will try to challenge her sooner or later over the free food on the porch, especially if he's a tough guy who isn't intimidated by a fight. Unfortunately he may continue to hang around long after you get her inside since he's gotten food on your porch in the past. Do you have a feral cat association in your area who may help you trap this guy and get him fixed? Since you aren't worried about blowing HIS trust, and in fact having him experience a traumatic event associated with you may keep him away...!
Hang in there. Sooner or later you will get her inside. Just keep working on gaining her trust and trying to get the food dish closer and closer to your door - and ultimately IN the door with her as well.