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HeiressofBickworth

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14. Way back, in my dating days

Sat Jul 5, 2014, 12:06 AM

Jul 2014

I had a rule -- no sex with men who are on the rebound. They are on a mission: 1) Hey, I can now have it whenever and however I want it, 2) if it's available, do it, or, the worst, 3) I'll show the ex I've still got it. No matter which version it is, you can be assured that you aren't the star of the evening because of the external agenda.

Now, for YOU, Backwoods, you're in the love em/leave em position. While you are out having fun, just be sure you aren't misleading the lady that it anything but recreational. If that mutual understanding is reached, put on the raincoat and have fun.

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how soon is too soon? [View all] backwoodsbob Jul 2014 OP

Not too fast for enjoyment; antiquie Jul 2014 #1

seriously? MH1 Jul 2014 #2

we have known for a year or more backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #4

Idk if it's too soon, but Sweet Freedom Jul 2014 #3

oh it is casual backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #5

best of luck in all your endeavors (whatever they may be) n/t orleans Jul 2014 #6

No one else's opinion matters here lunatica Jul 2014 #7

I just wanted opinions backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #8

My one most important measuring stick for a good relationship lunatica Jul 2014 #9

we had a blast last night backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #10

It's all fun and games til someone plays Stairway to Heaven.... PoliticAverse Jul 2014 #11

I'm pretty certain I do NOT want to ever go beyond friends with benefits again. alphafemale Jul 2014 #12

that is how I see it right now backwoodsbob Jul 2014 #13

Way back, in my dating days HeiressofBickworth Jul 2014 #14

I'd say that it is too soon but the bigger problem I forsee Jenoch Jul 2014 #15