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Lars39

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12. I'm sorry for your loss, RandySF.

Reply to RandySF (Original post)

Mon Oct 20, 2014, 10:37 AM

Oct 2014

I personally found that #1 was actually anger more than jealousy. Anger at the injustice, not the survivors. It's a hard slog no matter how prepared you think you are.

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The stages of grief they don't talk about in the media. [View all] RandySF Oct 2014 OP

I am so sorry shenmue Oct 2014 #1

My dear RandySF... CaliforniaPeggy Oct 2014 #2

... magical thyme Oct 2014 #3

My condolences to you and your family AwakeAtLast Oct 2014 #4

my heart goes out to you, randy orleans Oct 2014 #5

I've been dealing a lot with the jealousy thing lately. Hassin Bin Sober Oct 2014 #6

Death of a loved one is surreal. Arugula Latte Oct 2014 #7

Yes! exactly! orleans Oct 2014 #15

{{{RandySF}}} I totally get it. I was/am still wondering why my husband's brother lived to 83, but WinkyDink Oct 2014 #8

It is not an easy, or quick, process. brer cat Oct 2014 #9

. . . In_The_Wind Oct 2014 #10

Do you remember what Joe Biden said to family members who lost a loved one in Iraq? CTyankee Oct 2014 #11

I'm sorry for your loss, RandySF. Lars39 Oct 2014 #12

My deepest sympathy RandySF. riderinthestorm Oct 2014 #13

Honestly, I am not sure anyone ever truly, gets over the death of their Mother. Tuesday Afternoon Oct 2014 #14

. LWolf Oct 2014 #16