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12. I guess only the lady, if she is out there, knows
Sun Aug 23, 2015, 02:17 PM
Aug 2015

I was 100% oblivious female. If I were young I'd read that as oh no! Better not invite anyone in for coffee. Who knows how they will take that. Back when I was young that would have scared young men as it was supposed to be their idea and up to them when anything happened. You were said to turn them off with "desperation" if you made any of the moves.

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