What was your very first job with a non-family member (even extended family) ?

[Aristus]

61. That image is a little misleading, I'll grant you.

My brother and I were talking together a while back. And we agreed that until the early 80's or so, our childhoods could be described as idyllic. Nothing but happy memories.

In 1981, my Dad retired from the Army, and went to work in a high-pressure corporate job. The loss of the secure life in the military, coupled with the stress of his career and the first effects of what I imagine was PTSD picked up in Vietnam really did a number on him. He began behaving erratically, and it tore the family apart.

My mother held us together and got us through it. It was probably the hardest thing she's ever done. But she did it.

I have an enormously rewarding career. My brother is a successful businessman, and my sister is a beloved teacher with two beautiful daughters. Life is good.