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In reply to the discussion: Not using a condom when you promise to is unacceptable. [View all]JimDandy
(7,318 posts)53. What an awful misogynistic comment:
"Some women are in love with the idea of being in love and/or having kids. This is why men have to be especially vigilant when a female wants sex."
So, if a woman initiates/wants sex, a man has to be especially vigilant because she might want children (no trust issues with your partner there...no sir!), but if a man wants sex, full steam ahead!
Let me educate you: Women, just like men, can want sex just because they're fucking (appropriate use here) horny. And no siree bob, women can't have sex because they might ACTUALLY BE IN LOVE with their partner.
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If you consent to have sex with someone provided they use a condom and they don't
PoliticAverse
Mar 2015
#1
It may not meet the strict definition of rape, however, its is, without a doubt, sexual assault.
Veilex
Mar 2015
#5
So logically then, it would follow that other conditions not being met would also make it "rape"
Bonobo
Mar 2015
#4
"Would breaking those conditions make it "rape"?" - Those conditions are absurd and unrealistic.
Veilex
Mar 2015
#6
By that logic a woman claiming to be on BC duplicitously is "tantamount to rape"
Major Nikon
Mar 2015
#7
I happen to be of the opinion that a women lieing to a man about being on the pill and coexing him..
Veilex
Mar 2015
#9
Not having sex at all is also a choice which hasn't been deprived in this scenario
Major Nikon
Mar 2015
#14
Because I don't agree with your false assertion, doesn't mean I'm missing your point
Major Nikon
Mar 2015
#19
"If two people agree to have sex, then it's not rape." - except that your ignoring the precondition.
Veilex
Mar 2015
#31
There are potential consequences occurring to both parties, but it ain't assault.
Eleanors38
Mar 2015
#66
Condoms protect against AIDS and other STDs, birth control pills do not. They're not equivalent. n/t
prayin4rain
Mar 2015
#60
unless youre in a commited relationship and havent been using them at her request b/c she's
Romeo.lima333
Mar 2015
#11
In that scenario, there are bigger things at issue. Namely issues of trust between the two of you.
Veilex
Mar 2015
#12
she wanted to get married and thought this was the way to go about it, i guess
Romeo.lima333
Mar 2015
#13
All of the major research on the topic is happening in other countries (of course)
lumberjack_jeff
Mar 2015
#41
I would not be surprised at all if duplicitously claiming to use BC has been interpreted as a crime
Major Nikon
Mar 2015
#29
No, I think that it is a crime, or at least a law that should exist
ProudToBeBlueInRhody
Mar 2015
#49