"This Just In: Men Watch Porn"

[Warren DeMontague]

5. I think I even she realizes that at some point a little bit of sanity has to prevail around

These realities.

...the people whose definition of marital happiness depends on their partner neverevereverever looking at any pictures of naked women (or reading a romance novel, or using a vibrator), to blow off a little steam occasionally, are setting themselves up for a ridiculous amount of unnecessary strife and effort. Adult relationships based upon mutual trust and respect generally understand that individuals function better as a faithful and mutually committed couple when each person has some measure of their own space as well.

imho.