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NRA_SUCKS

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17. Every time I tried, my ex would kill the idea
Wed Feb 13, 2013, 11:03 PM
Feb 2013

Literally told me I'm simply not good enough and we'd spend X00's on getting a professional.
So it's been kind of beaten out of me, which sucks now that i'm divorced and living in a DIY-lover's dream of a home...
it's fine, but needs work... lots of it. none of it that really requires a professional.
sadly my exwife did a very good job of beating, viciously, that drive to do anything right out of me.

but I'm competent enough when it comes to home wiring, carpentry (literally in my blood as well as two years of woodshop in school) and engineering / design. I'm cheap but not where it matters. Usually I go to the lowest reasonable cost, but if the better idea is the top-shelf wangle, then it's the top shelf wangle. Toilets, however, can be discount!

I'm thinking of expanding and covering my deck in the spring and perhaps replacing the trailer walls with dry wall... assuming I canget my deflated ass to do it.

I think DIY home improvements are awesome! RevStPatrick Feb 2013 #1
LOL, you almost made me spew my drink all over. Denninmi Feb 2013 #2
DIY is awesome but my DIY rules of thumb: discntnt_irny_srcsm Feb 2013 #3
I'm getting increasingly handy as I get older. Warren DeMontague Feb 2013 #4
If the women don't find you handsome, they should at least find you handy. Major Nikon Feb 2013 #6
Handy AND Handsome, dammit! Not to mention, I have huge hands. Warren DeMontague Feb 2013 #9
Exactly. n/t lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #16
I'm not much of a big project person Major Nikon Feb 2013 #5
There is always some project. Denninmi Feb 2013 #7
Shoveling ProudToBeBlueInRhody Feb 2013 #8
I fucking hate it... opiate69 Feb 2013 #10
I'm easily frustrated too! gvstn Feb 2013 #11
To a tee, your just described my interactions Broken_Hero Feb 2013 #13
I've found that, integral to my competence is a realistic assesment of my own incompetence level. Warren DeMontague Feb 2013 #14
Depends on the job. westerebus Feb 2013 #12
I'm a guy who calls himself "lumberjack" lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #15
Every time I tried, my ex would kill the idea NRA_SUCKS Feb 2013 #17
What is the worst thing that can happen? lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #18
I usually ask myself that. Denninmi Feb 2013 #20
Well yeah... if the "worst" involves ambulances or fire trucks, I might think twice. lumberjack_jeff Feb 2013 #21
effin eh! This..right here. Fix The Stupid Feb 2013 #23
I really like most home projects Mosby Feb 2013 #19
Ask away....I practically re-built my house, by myself :) Fix The Stupid Feb 2013 #22
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