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Response to galileoreloaded (Reply #20)

Thu May 16, 2013, 03:38 PM

24. nope. my ring finger is not longer than index. yes, i have a very pumped up

 

T family of men. manly men. all that in being a man. and still, both brothers were very much the nurturers in their families, with their kids. they both ended up with custody of the kids and they both were the ones to raise the kids.

i on the other hand, have been told repeatedly i am very feminine. i always felt masculine, cause all those man traits are what i excelled at. competitive sports for two decades. management roles, and nothing passive about me.

but... i get a surprising comment about me being anything but. that i am very feminine. dont know why. clueless.

and the whole T role has been shifting and changing over the last couple years and T does not mean aggression and violence. and also show benevolence and altruism. so, what definition of T are you using in your definition of masculinity?

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