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In reply to the discussion: How does self-flaggelation get to this point? how does someone get so fearful of their testosterone? [View all]nomorenomore08
(13,324 posts)31. People conflate "sex" and "love" to widely varying degrees.
Some are unable to properly enjoy physical intimacy without a deep and lasting emotional connection. Others can jump into bed with just about anyone and have a great time. Whereas most people - myself included - probably fall somewhere in the middle.
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How does self-flaggelation get to this point? how does someone get so fearful of their testosterone? [View all]
galileoreloaded
Jun 2013
OP
Yeah, lacking a sense of balance or perspective can wind up with some weird stuff.
nomorenomore08
Jun 2013
#11
Here's another post from the same guy. Might shed some light on why he is the way he is:
nomorenomore08
Jun 2013
#12
I hesitate to get personal about a total stranger, but he does mention that he was sexually abused.
nomorenomore08
Jun 2013
#15
i dont get this idea that there has to be love, sex is fun especially when done right
loli phabay
Jun 2013
#29
love is what i get with my family ie wife kids etc, does not stop me having fun
loli phabay
Jun 2013
#33
As a general rule, I don't take advice from anyone whose motto is "I Feel Like Shit and Want To Die"
Warren DeMontague
Jun 2013
#22
Agreed. His worldview is so obviously driven by depression, and general neurosis, that it pains me
nomorenomore08
Jun 2013
#24
Well, superficially, I don't find Francis to be as creepy as Benedict. Not that that's saying much
nomorenomore08
Jun 2013
#28