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Response to lambchopp59 (Reply #7)

Wed Jun 7, 2017, 04:09 PM

8. Thanks for the encouraging reply.

I wrestle with the "being evolved" part all the time. I don't think I am doing so great some days, but at least I'm trying.

I have though a lot about my original post since the other day. I think it is probably normal to question ones desires. I hope it's part of growing and being in tune with my body.

Also, I recently became engaged (no looming date thankfully). I think that is part of the reason for examining my feelings. Like I mentioned in the OP, I have never pursued a same sex relationship. The right opportunity never presented itself. I can't deny the feelings and I'm certainly not ashamed of them. I think I'm just obsessing about it because I am not the kind of person to act on a whim. Every major life decision has been carefully measured. I graduated high school early, undergrad in slightly under 4 years, and then on to grad school. Still contemplating further education...so I never spent much time exploring my sexuality. It was usually just an after thought. Does this all seem to be a product of my ambitious career goals? I think that is where I've cheated myself.

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