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Warpy

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17. I had a rough time, mine were every 41 minutes around the clock in the beginning.
Sat Sep 6, 2014, 03:06 PM
Sep 2014

My mother had developed breast cancer after being on HRT for 25 years, so I didn't think I was a candidate there. I did snag an extra premarin at work, thinking it might buy me a good night's sleep on one of my days off. All it bought me is a reminder of why I couldn't take BC pills, an intense migraine.

They've finally tapered off to 3 or 4 a day. One always happens when I first settle down to sleep. The years of the every 41 minute misery taught me how to roll over onto the cooler side and just go to sleep. Exhaustion from 12 hour night shifts helped.

If men got hot flashes, they'd know what kind of physiological cascade causes them and have cheap OTC medication to stop them completely. Unfortunately, they happen to old women and old women are considered utterly useless in medical science.

The best way to deal with a hot flash when you're awake is to get up and walk around, the buckets of sweat cooling you off quickly when you start to move around. In the winter, they're almost pleasant if you keep a very cool house like I do.

They also do taper off eventually. My mother said she still got one or two a month in her 90s.

question about symptoms of menopause [View all] Bertha Venation Sep 2014 OP
I went off Hormone Replacement Therapy Suich Sep 2014 #1
thanks, Suich Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #18
I've had it off and on for 3 years but considering what I no longer have I don't let it bother me. AuntPatsy Sep 2014 #2
I thought I'd be stuck with them til I died! Suich Sep 2014 #4
Seeing my gyno on 9/16, and Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #19
We'll mine firmly believes the meds currently on the market can cause cancer, well these days AuntPatsy Sep 2014 #45
Been there! Kath1 Sep 2014 #3
Had no idea they could just stop. Suich Sep 2014 #5
Thank you, Kath1. Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #20
Mostly at night time. blue neen Sep 2014 #6
I've done that. Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #21
I have fantasies about swimming pools. beam me up scottie Sep 2014 #7
Face plant into snow sounds Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #22
You would think that in the interest of saving the planet the scientists would find a cure. beam me up scottie Sep 2014 #27
heh Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #37
I did HRT for a while, elleng Sep 2014 #8
wow Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #23
Yes, I was very fortunate. elleng Sep 2014 #34
Have had hot flashes for over almost 20yrs.Drinking sage tea helps me a lot. Take a couple leaves of peacebird Sep 2014 #9
I'll try the sage tea Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #24
Feel your pain. If I don't take HRT my hot flashes are non-stop. Laffy Kat Sep 2014 #10
Good for you! Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #25
I have pretty much emerged to the other side Granny M Sep 2014 #11
I'm glad you made it through Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #28
10 years so far, but getting a little better cbayer Sep 2014 #12
Not sure I can do HRT Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #29
Ive heard others say the same thing newfie11 Sep 2014 #13
One hot flash?! Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #30
Yes I was driving down a rural hiway newfie11 Sep 2014 #46
For me, the drenchings came at night, mostly. Ilsa Sep 2014 #14
Soy. Hmm. Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #31
This too will pass Freddie Sep 2014 #15
I'm glad it wasn't too bad for you Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #32
I had hot flashes for around three years. SheilaT Sep 2014 #16
I'm getting that hot & cold crap, too. Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #33
Something else can be going on. 7wo7rees Sep 2014 #38
As with everything else, we are all different. SheilaT Sep 2014 #48
I had a rough time, mine were every 41 minutes around the clock in the beginning. Warpy Sep 2014 #17
Holy shit, Warpy. Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #35
never had a single hot flash Skittles Sep 2014 #26
Hi, Skittles Bertha Venation Sep 2014 #36
Mine only lasted a few years. Started off slow for about 6 months then many times a day OregonBlue Sep 2014 #39
No hot flashes for me.... nruthie Sep 2014 #40
Less than 10 hot flashes during the change dem in texas Sep 2014 #42
Went through it, no hormones and have survived! MuseRider Sep 2014 #41
Sleep with a box fan at the foot of your bed blowing on your face. kaiden Sep 2014 #43
The first couple of years it felt at times as though I were going to burst into flames notadmblnd Sep 2014 #44
check out bioidentical hormones womanofthehills Sep 2014 #47
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