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In reply to the discussion: Am I a bad person? [View all]
 

ihas2stinkyfeet

(1,400 posts)
19. maybe look at it this way-
Sat Oct 3, 2020, 05:24 PM
Oct 2020

when you said your dog was sick, you put an emotional burden on whoever you told to care about your sick dog. and to worry about you- could you afford to take the dog to the vet? was it going to be hard on you to take care of the dog? did you have a way to get them to the vet? was it going to make you miss something important? did you feel bad that you had to leave the class?

a simple- i have to go would not only have worked fine, it would have worked better.

you dont need to worry about what other's think. that is their issue. just take care of yourself and do what you have to do.

Am I a bad person? [View all] vercetti2021 Aug 2020 OP
Nope never irisblue Aug 2020 #1
No you are not a bad person! SheltieLover Aug 2020 #2
Are these self-help videos? vercetti2021 Aug 2020 #10
Yes, they are. SheltieLover Aug 2020 #11
That's not at all an asshole thing to do, Vercetti ... mr_lebowski Aug 2020 #3
I'm glad to hear you took care of yourself. WhiteTara Aug 2020 #4
I feel like everything I have to do it has to be some kind of excuse vercetti2021 Aug 2020 #9
It's a common fallacy. WhiteTara Aug 2020 #12
Never would wish sickness on my dog vercetti2021 Aug 2020 #13
Bottom line WhiteTara Aug 2020 #14
So true. cwydro Aug 2020 #15
Me too, and now WhiteTara Aug 2020 #16
It is freedom. cwydro Aug 2020 #17
maybe look at it this way- ihas2stinkyfeet Oct 2020 #19
We all Timewas Aug 2020 #5
No, you are good. Many of us have isolated and are shy about going out. KY_EnviroGuy Aug 2020 #6
I've always been mediocre at painting vercetti2021 Aug 2020 #8
It's ok shenmue Aug 2020 #7
You did whst you had to. I suffer from panic attacks XanaDUer2 Sep 2020 #18
you sound normal to me. demigoddess Oct 2020 #20
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