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Bayard

(22,059 posts)
8. It depends on what you call chaos
Sun Jan 9, 2022, 01:42 PM
Jan 2022

I used to be fanatical about cleaning house when I was younger. It took up way too much of my life--time for things that became more important to me--my animals mostly. Along with my large garden, and projects we always have going on (finishing the inside of our cabin-like actual walls and doors, putting up fencing, building more animal structures, etc). Even though we are both retired now, we are busier than ever, and ENJOY it.

Yeah, my house is usually a mess. We have 3 Great Pyrenees that are walking shedding machines. Fighting cobwebs and dust in a log home can be a full time job because of the uneven wall surface and beamed ceilings. Like most horse people I know, my barn is usually cleaner than my house! Mr. Bayard, for all his wonderful qualities, is something of a slob about leaving clothes and stuff laying around. But he does the laundry, and occasionally vacuums. He does so much of the outside work, I can't begin to tell you.

I've learned to walk through our little home, and close my eyes about some things. I'll get to the cleaning when I can, but I'm not obsessed with it anymore. Most of the time, I'm happy as a clam, even though I'm bipolar. Rarely now, depression can still raise its ugly head. But, my meds have been literally life-saving. I've been on the same stuff for a long time, and it works well for me.

Right now, I'm trying to make time to take down the Xmas decorations!



I'm a terrible housekeeper most of the time. My passion is gardening. BlackSkimmer Jan 2022 #1
Thanks for replying XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #2
I have a ceramic sign I found in a thrift store. I have it hanging on my porch. BlackSkimmer Jan 2022 #7
I have a little sign MOMFUDSKI Jan 2022 #9
Lol! BlackSkimmer Jan 2022 #15
Oh definitely. It's been a lifelong struggle for me. Walleye Jan 2022 #3
Thank you XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #5
I think all these issues are getting exacerbated in this strange time we're in Walleye Jan 2022 #18
It's been like this 9 years. I took, what I thought, was a good job. It was a nightmare XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #21
Well good luck a toxic work environment is just the worst Walleye Jan 2022 #28
It's huge for everyone jimfields33 Jan 2022 #4
Thank you nt XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #6
It depends on what you call chaos Bayard Jan 2022 #8
Thanks XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #10
Think of your daily issues MOMFUDSKI Jan 2022 #11
Lol XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #12
I have a few suggestions gristy Jan 2022 #13
Thanks XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #14
Excellent advice, gristly! Quakerfriend Jan 2022 #19
I like that vac! Cracklin Charlie Jan 2022 #20
For small touch ups, it works well enough sitting on the floor or holding it in one hand gristy Jan 2022 #25
Temporary chaos. Cracklin Charlie Jan 2022 #16
You're welcome XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #17
Gristy gave some great advice upstairs, Xana. Cracklin Charlie Jan 2022 #22
Happy New Year! XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #24
compartmentalize markie Jan 2022 #23
Thanks! XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #26
I'm a sentimental person and have trouble letting go of things. A great trick I found is to Ziggysmom Jan 2022 #27
Thank you nt XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #32
Lucky for me, we own the house. My room is a shit hole. Depression is part of it. 3Hotdogs Jan 2022 #29
I am right there with you, and it seems like a spiral in many ways FirstLight Jan 2022 #30
I'm sorry XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #31
2021 leighbythesea2 Jan 2022 #33
I started with 30 minutes a day while listening to a really good book on tape. I was Scrivener7 Jan 2022 #34
Thanks! XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #35
It's a PTSD thing with me. As an adult I don't think I've ever felt secure in my person or place. hunter Jan 2022 #36
OMG, Yes! whathehell Jan 2022 #37
Thanks XanaDUer2 Jan 2022 #38
You're welcome! whathehell Jan 2022 #39
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