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mopinko

(69,965 posts)
14. shame is a waste.
Tue Jun 11, 2013, 09:43 AM
Jun 2013

but it is a frightening thing. i have 2 daughters with mental health issues and both did this for a while. i don't think either on does it now, but i don't know.
it is a heartbreaking thing to look at for someone who loves you, and i am sure that would include you.
your hubby might could use a bop in the head, tho. can't think of too many lonelier things that suffering before someone's eyes, and having them not see.

do what you need to take care of your self.

I am so ashamed. And I am a cutter. [View all] a la izquierda Jun 2013 OP
... CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2013 #1
I can only offer hugs. NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #2
Thanks! I feel much better today. a la izquierda Jun 2013 #10
She makes me smile, too. She's called the bubble girl. NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #11
That is nothing to be ashamed of. ZombieHorde Jun 2013 #3
I feel like it is supremely embarrassing. a la izquierda Jun 2013 #4
Have you considered Dialectical Behavior Therapy? siligut Jun 2013 #5
Funny that it is helpful for people with BPD. a la izquierda Jun 2013 #6
People with BPD tend to be cutters siligut Jun 2013 #7
Have you tried Dialectical Behavior Therapy? BainsBane Jun 2013 #8
Seconding this advice. DBT is good stuff. NYC_SKP Jun 2013 #9
I'm a cutter too undergroundpanther Jun 2013 #12
Thank you for sharing this. a la izquierda Jun 2013 #13
shame is a waste. mopinko Jun 2013 #14
please do not be ashamed fizzgig Jun 2013 #15
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