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Mental Health Support

nadine_mn

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5. My husband basically said the same thing

Reply to steve2470 (Reply #2)

Tue Mar 27, 2018, 01:25 AM

Mar 2018

That maybe she is invested in being "sick" and needs that. So I will pull back...and be there if she needs me

I have a habit of wanting to jump in and rescue, while ignoring my own sinking boat.

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Can I vent for just a few minutes? [View all] nadine_mn Mar 2018 OP

i have no advice to give you...just a (((HUG)))) samnsara Mar 2018 #1

Hugs are always appreciated nadine_mn Mar 2018 #4

first, my sympathies steve2470 Mar 2018 #2

My husband basically said the same thing nadine_mn Mar 2018 #5

Youre a really good friend. MontanaMama Mar 2018 #3

Thank you. I'm trying to help nadine_mn Mar 2018 #6

Right? MontanaMama Mar 2018 #9

I agree with what some others have suggested... Upthevibe Mar 2018 #7

You make a very valid point about a tendency to belittle real mental health issues by carelessly Nitram Mar 2018 #8

You are in a tough place. JayhawkSD Mar 2018 #10