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hunter

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9. My grandma was the good girl. Her sister was the bad girl.

Thu May 31, 2018, 07:15 PM

May 2018

Bad girl was born before the Great San Francisco earthquake, good girl after, in a ruined city.

Bad girl and her sister both ran south wild to 1920's Hollywood. It was, of course, ALL bad girl's fault. She'd corrupted her younger sister.

But good girl redeemed herself marrying a very respectable military officer.

My bad girl great aunt married and divorced several times. She had many wonderful adventures worldwide. My good girl grandma never ventured beyond U.S.A. territories.

I think my bad girl great aunt had the most fun and she lived more than a hundred years, decades longer than her younger good girl sister, fully vibrant an an Auntie Mame way to the very end.

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I was my family's scapegoat [View all] angstlessk May 2018 OP

Giving you support on your journey. irisblue May 2018 #1

I am basically at the end of the journey angstlessk May 2018 #2

right there beside you.... CelticWinter May 2018 #3

Read what families can do to ruin a child angstlessk May 2018 #4

will do nt CelticWinter May 2018 #5

scapegoating can lead to Asperger! angstlessk May 2018 #6

Thoughts for you get the red out May 2018 #7

Please read my post on the Dark Triad (about 30 mins ago). no_hypocrisy May 2018 #8

My grandma was the good girl. Her sister was the bad girl. hunter May 2018 #9