Not selfish at all, and please feel free to cry. I promise you *will* stop before your drown in your tears and the release will not only make you feel better, it may free enough energy to get life moving forward for you. And it's ok to be angry, too, about the lack of coordination/cooperation between your builder and your insurance co. Too late to change insurance cos., but can you get a quote or two from some other builders to either light a fire under the current one or convince the insurance co. they're better off with the current one?
It's good that your son stood up for himself. Now he just needs to find a way to stand up for himself without getting into trouble with TPTB. Easier said than done, I know. TPTB prefer to be the 3 monkeys and get annoyed when someone brings an issue to their attention.
So sorry you were rear-ended. Wow...that's a bucketload of damage. They must have slammed you pretty hard!
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