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mntleo2

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14. ALL marriage is just a contract ...
Wed Feb 20, 2013, 12:19 PM
Feb 2013

...anyone can find this out when they file for a divorce, lol. Suddenly all that "love" you used to have is all focused on the contract made after the vows that was in reality about who owns what.

I read once, tho I am not sure this is true, that the marriage ceremony the Church uses came from the Greeks. They created marriage because of inheritance for two unrelated men when they wanted each other to inherit and neither had children. The Church took it over and made it into what it is today, so some say. From what I know about the Church and how it took over local customs and then "sanitized" them, this could be true. It is beyond funny.

My East Indian Christian friends I mention in the OP told me a sad story about the history of their church. When the Portuguese invaded them in the 15th century, the invaders came upon their church, which Thomas The Doubter had established soon after Jesus' death. These idiots burned the church to the ground because they said it was not really Christian when they saw there were no statues in the church. This is because their church had been established by a man who was Jewish and they strictly followed the Jewish tradition not to have "any graven image". The Portuguese church had Greek and Roman roots, which simply converted those beautiful statues of gods and goddesses into saints, Jesus and Mary.

To me, if this is true about the marriage ceremony, I cannot help but be amused because this would be the ultimate irony when these religious wingnuts proclaim marriage is supposed to be between a man and a woman.

LOL!

Love, Cat

Fascinating. Thank you for posting this here. glowing Feb 2013 #1
Threatening, yes! Silly to be threatening? Yes, lol mntleo2 Feb 2013 #2
What bothers me about Jesus maybe being married is that Cleita Feb 2013 #3
I read a few books a while back Tsiyu Feb 2013 #20
That was what the whole "DaVinci Code" book was about. n/t Cleita Feb 2013 #22
Ah...I only read one of those books Tsiyu Feb 2013 #24
Browne is a pretty awful writer. I'm going to assume they became best sellers Cleita Feb 2013 #26
I remember being NOT impressed Tsiyu Feb 2013 #27
The current gospels were "cherry picked" with others being say, lost. FarPoint Feb 2013 #21
Maybe there is still a jar out there in the desert with undiscovered scrolls that Cleita Feb 2013 #23
Wow Great insight! mntleo2 Feb 2013 #28
I've never understood it. teenagebambam Feb 2013 #4
There are several clues I find plausible that lead yellerpup Feb 2013 #5
The link is fascinating to me ... mntleo2 Feb 2013 #6
Loved the Smithsonian article. yellerpup Feb 2013 #8
I forgot where I heard this BUT get the red out Feb 2013 #7
Someone should have asked Jesus Ricochet21 Feb 2013 #9
Women can be jerks too, unfortunately mntleo2 Feb 2013 #11
You misunderstand feminism get the red out Feb 2013 #13
Oh I was there in the beginning in my city ... mntleo2 Feb 2013 #15
Equal in selfishness get the red out Feb 2013 #16
What you say is beautiful! mntleo2 Feb 2013 #17
Nope, not their prophets telling them get the red out Feb 2013 #18
back in the early 80's I had a lot of discussions about Tumbulu Feb 2013 #19
The W.O.R.K. Act mntleo2 Feb 2013 #25
yes, sounds like a great bill Tumbulu Feb 2013 #30
Priests are not allowed to marry Tumbulu Feb 2013 #12
ALL marriage is just a contract ... mntleo2 Feb 2013 #14
Fascinating and informative and mind-boggling Smilo Feb 2013 #10
The Mary Magdalene and Jesus Energies findrskeep Feb 2013 #29
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