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beam me up scottie

(57,349 posts)
19. "Incredibly brave woman"
Sun May 10, 2015, 05:57 PM
May 2015

Yes she is.

You write that you were “traumatised into feminism” as a teenager. What do you mean by that?

My family moved to Saudi Arabia from Glasgow when I was 15. Being a 15-year-old girl anywhere is difficult — all those hormones and everything – but being a 15-year-old girl in Saudi Arabia…it was like someone had turned the light off in my head. I could not get a grasp on why women were treated like this. In the UK, my mother had been the breadwinner. I’d seen my parents side by side. In Saudi Arabia, my mother was basically rendered disabled. She was unable to drive, dependent on my dad for everything. The religious zealotry was so suffocating. And I had been raised a Muslim, I came from a Muslim family, but this was ultra-zealous. As a woman in Saudi Arabia, you have one of two options. You either lose your mind – which at first happened to me because I fell into a deep depression – or you become a feminist.

Were you anxious about the outrage you might provoke in some quarters by speaking openly about misogyny within your own community?

I’ve got a lot of hate… But it’s hate from people I’m glad I’m pissing off. As a woman with an opinion, you get a lot of shit.


There are plenty on DU who would attack her for her lack of respect for religion.

Fuck them.

How dare anyone dismiss another's anger?



The reason above all else that I cannot stand women. F4lconF16 May 2015 #1
You can't stand women? Curmudgeoness May 2015 #12
Whooooops! F4lconF16 May 2015 #15
Freudian slip, perhaps? Curmudgeoness May 2015 #21
Ha, nah, I do enjoy the company of women and very much support their causes/issues. F4lconF16 May 2015 #22
"I don't really understand most men..." LostOne4Ever May 2015 #26
It's been sad watching friends I've had slip away over the last year and a half. F4lconF16 May 2015 #35
Your post's title is misleading Duppers May 2015 #16
No problem! F4lconF16 May 2015 #18
Someone here is obviously trying to win a popularity poll! LostOne4Ever May 2015 #27
I wish we could shrink them down Cartoonist May 2015 #2
Not sure that's 100% right. They all seek to control women, and punish them.... truebrit71 May 2015 #3
It's all part of some core tenets of Christianity. PeaceNikki May 2015 #8
Yes indeed. truebrit71 May 2015 #9
Jezebel Spirit onager May 2015 #23
Yep. That is it in a nutshell (no pun intended). Arugula Latte May 2015 #4
haha.. good one mountain grammy May 2015 #24
No, this is it in a nutshell Lordquinton May 2015 #25
They do edhopper May 2015 #5
YOU MUST RESPECT THEIR DEEPLY HELD BELIEFS!!!! 1!! PeaceNikki May 2015 #6
Here's another must read PeaceNikki May 2015 #7
And money. Goblinmonger May 2015 #10
Which is why I am a pagan where the opposite it true nt Mojorabbit May 2015 #11
This is the reason that I am an atheist. Curmudgeoness May 2015 #13
When I was a kid, I boiled down still more Warpy May 2015 #14
Best. Summary. Ever! F4lconF16 May 2015 #17
"Incredibly brave woman" beam me up scottie May 2015 #19
"All religions, if you shrink them down, are all about controlling women’s sexuality…" AlbertCat May 2015 #20
Fear of death is what religions ~use~ to get control Fumesucker May 2015 #28
Great Article on Bible / Constitution Could NEVER be Compatable Serial Mom May 2015 #29
HEY!! PeaceNikki May 2015 #31
Ya Hey Der! Serial Mom May 2015 #32
They're a fine bunch of Evil Atheist Vermin. PeaceNikki May 2015 #33
That's an awesome article! beam me up scottie May 2015 #34
SaudiWoman's Blog - Punishment In Saudi Arabia onager May 2015 #30
This cannot be my home planet. MindPilot May 2015 #36
Or else it's used to control all people's minds...? TheHardWay May 2015 #37
This was specifically about how women are controled by religion Lordquinton May 2015 #38
My unkind answer to Mrs Eltahawy: not everything is a nail if you have a hammer. Yorktown May 2015 #39
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