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k and r niyad Jan 2013 #1
Does OK Cupid actually ask gollygee Jan 2013 #2
Helpful in allowing the more patriarchally-minded people to find each other... redqueen Jan 2013 #3
since boyhood, yes, still boys, they watch movies where the unattractive guy gets the HOT seabeyond Jan 2013 #9
one of he major dating sites ask if "No means no" and three out of four choices are yes. Scary shit. bettyellen Jan 2013 #7
That one guy was funny... Kalidurga Jan 2013 #4
Ha, yes... redqueen Jan 2013 #6
Actually his attitude was the worst... Kalidurga Jan 2013 #8
mmm hygene? then, thinking this thru, all men should be shaving those legs also. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #10
Yep Kalidurga Jan 2013 #13
meh... i really dont have issues, one way or another. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #14
Me either Kalidurga Jan 2013 #15
true that. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #18
You are mistaken. Many men are self conscious about being hairy. redqueen Jan 2013 #16
Oh wow Kalidurga Jan 2013 #17
Ha yes, shaving one's chest isn't usually a job requirement... redqueen Jan 2013 #19
I don't have a preference...nt Kalidurga Jan 2013 #20
Hah! n/t Helen Reddy Jan 2013 #21
One does not simply walk out of the friend-zone. DetlefK Jan 2013 #5
i am clueless what your point is. nt seabeyond Jan 2013 #11
It's a section in the article. DetlefK Jan 2013 #24
thank you for clarifying this for me. this i understand, lol seabeyond Jan 2013 #26
LOL, well said. redqueen Jan 2013 #27
i had never heard of this "nice guy" thing in decades, lol. du taught me. seabeyond Jan 2013 #12
Good thing he learned the truth. redqueen Jan 2013 #22
boys are told this constantly. it is so wrong. i am really fuckin tired of, woman only like the bad seabeyond Jan 2013 #23
Yeah, the women that say it are confused. redqueen Jan 2013 #25
What I find personally interesting ismnotwasm Jan 2013 #29
"Or laid." Exactly. redqueen Jan 2013 #31
I have actually had men tell me straight up that I "owed them" sex. MadrasT Jan 2013 #28
Yep. Many men shamelessly admit that they see all women as prostitutes. redqueen Jan 2013 #30
I know a guy from college Tien1985 Jan 2013 #32
Ha. I get that one too. MadrasT Jan 2013 #33
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