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noamnety

(20,234 posts)

5. this is no different

Reply to KitSileya (Original post)

Sun Oct 27, 2013, 07:15 PM

Oct 2013

than what I would expect of decent people when confronted with racism.

It's hard to convince people you're not racist when you're chilling with a room full of people making racist jokes, or kicking back with your buddies listening to how they would never hire someone who is black.

We shouldn't even have to go through a thought process of whether or not it's our duty to speak out. It should just be instinctual to blurt out "wtf, dude, that's not okay."

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On allies and male feminists [View all] KitSileya Oct 2013 OP

I agree Arcanetrance Oct 2013 #1

You were definitely on my mind when I described men who do all these things. KitSileya Oct 2013 #2

And there it is ismnotwasm Oct 2013 #3

I agree with you, all these excuses they make are just so much smokescreen KitSileya Oct 2013 #10

Men who do nothing are actually complicit in the patriarchy. Gravitycollapse Oct 2013 #4

"Doing nothing is, in essence, the same as endorsing it." i had to do the hardest thing in the world seabeyond Oct 2013 #8

this is no different noamnety Oct 2013 #5

Here's my view as a young man who sincerely wants to help... YoungDemCA Oct 2013 #6

you are right. it is the reality of it. it is hard. and if you do not speak up then you are part seabeyond Oct 2013 #9

I see what you're saying, KitSileya Oct 2013 #11

Oh absolutely YoungDemCA Oct 2013 #14

a very good Op and i could nto agree with you more. i know that when women, especially our young seabeyond Oct 2013 #7

Gender stereotypes and societal pressure to conform to the gender binary is what drives a lot of it. NuclearDem Oct 2013 #12

Here is one example of how allies can use their privilege to fight oppression. redqueen Oct 2013 #13

Most of us would rather be comfortable. YoungDemCA Oct 2013 #15

+1000 smirkymonkey Nov 2013 #16