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Backseat Driver

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10. I am sitting here in tears at this "triggering" article.
Sun Jun 23, 2019, 12:35 PM
Jun 2019

I'm an early boomer, and somewhere along the line I fell into the rabbit hole called America. I ask myself, aka ALICE, what was the criteria for deciding who would fail at success in this country: name; color, sex and/or orientation, zip code, education, religious beliefs, political affiliation, occupation, birth order or size and nature of familial social networks??? I just can't figure out why my accomplishments or small rewards were systematically stripped away and continue down the slippery slope of that hole except as a more grain seed full of potential for the threshing and grinding.

You know, I know the GOP thinks seniors are now "useless and entitled eaters," but I have yet to hear a Democratic candidate speak to what was done to boomers who had just enough but didn't pursue the almighty dollar for the sake of financial wealth but considered richness in a daily life of family and community to be enough, to have enough, to do enough to enjoy arising each day without worry it would be the day one's life would be thrown into the landfill of poverty. Just what the H happened???

Years ago, Elizabeth Warren, explained nearly exactly the course of my life of one step forward/two steps back. I wish she would now explain the further steps along that ugly path to falling down that rabbit hole. Perhaps it too will match up and explain to me what happened. Why should I hide my despair that there is no way to recoup - I've already been stigmatized and named ALICE by those trying to explain it all.

Whatever did happen, I know I will NEVER ever vote for a single Republican. But neither will I ever again work to make a corporate CEO richer or be the author of financial debt, if that is what is required to buy a home, a lease that sucks up more than I can be held accountable for payment, a trayful of prescribed pills to ward off the diseases of older age, anything that smells like "new" car. I can't even buy a television for cash or go to a genuine salon for a haircut. Since plan A for self-sufficiency as a senior has gone down the rabbit hole of charade and now being described as hubris instead of trust, I will try another false action plan to be as grateful, tolerant, generous, and as expensive to PUKES and corporate power as I can be (which probably and certainly won't be enough - see the cognitive dissonance in that plan?). I can't afford a health policy stacked against my pre-existing conditions or devices that are never covered nor a pre-paid funeral plan though I do have a LW&T. I'll end up stacked up in a morgue until the GoFundMe is enough to really end it all in flames and ashes. What I treasured in life means nothing to the kids, but perhaps the next burned out family in town will make good use of all not ready for the junk heap just yet.

I have to go now - but the tears are still flowing...

If I were to vote in a presidential
primary today, I would vote for:
Joe Biden
It's a classic way to keep people under control. Firestorm49 Jun 2019 #1
It's why I think Warren's message may resonate in unexpected places. marylandblue Jun 2019 #2
Already starting to control the population with the food supply. democratisphere Jun 2019 #3
But, the stock market is at an all-time high, employment is the highest it's been in 50 years, sop Jun 2019 #4
Yup, "on average, we're all rich!" KPN Jun 2019 #8
This is the biggliest, bestest, most stupendist stock market, EVER ! 3Hotdogs Jun 2019 #5
This is why I support Universal Basic Income as proposed by Andrew Yang Sherman A1 Jun 2019 #6
Yang has said his UBI will do away with the social safety net. aidbo Jun 2019 #29
Not from my understanding Sherman A1 Jun 2019 #32
Academic who returned to an America that JCMach1 Jun 2019 #7
Sorry to hear this regarding your situation. I just talked to a friend in his 50s, same predicta-.. SWBTATTReg Jun 2019 #19
Age discrimination is very, very real Sherman A1 Jun 2019 #33
Good. Creeps deserved it (getting screwed). It is hard to combat. Got to prove it ... SWBTATTReg Jun 2019 #36
Irony is I was tenured outside the US ... I returned JCMach1 Jun 2019 #35
Shaking my head in sadness. It's too bad that you couldn't have taken a prolonged leave of leave... SWBTATTReg Jun 2019 #37
Thanks... JCMach1 Jun 2019 #38
I suspected as much...a very difficult place to be...my best friend is an only child and he went... SWBTATTReg Jun 2019 #40
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Jun 2019 #9
You're welcome, Uncle Joe. hedda_foil Jun 2019 #24
I am sitting here in tears at this "triggering" article. Backseat Driver Jun 2019 #10
This Gen X'er started out homeless lambchopp59 Jun 2019 #16
I'm thinking that our preferences in the primary would work well Backseat Driver Jun 2019 #30
And I'm joyful to see Elizabeth Warren surging in the polls lambchopp59 Jun 2019 #34
... progressoid Jun 2019 #26
The things we are still proud of are the things they hate RVN VET71 Jun 2019 #11
48% living at Poverty Level. Wellstone ruled Jun 2019 #12
He said we'd be sick of winning. We're just sick of him. CaptYossarian Jun 2019 #15
It is only going to get worse. Wellstone ruled Jun 2019 #17
How will the 90% of Appalachia vote in 2020 if he does that to them? CaptYossarian Jun 2019 #28
Well,sad to say this, Wellstone ruled Jun 2019 #31
Trend that will continue until we can get Faux Noise Faithful to wake up to the facts that lambchopp59 Jun 2019 #13
Yet we are constantly barraged with media accounts of how great the stock market is doing. Snarkoleptic Jun 2019 #14
I can't read this as it is behind a pay wall for me dsc Jun 2019 #18
The information is from the United Way ALICE project csziggy Jun 2019 #22
Detailed Methodology reACTIONary Jun 2019 #23
Cell Phones? reACTIONary Jun 2019 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author Mosby Jun 2019 #21
Transforming U.S. from democratic governance to feudal oligarchy n/t MarcA Jun 2019 #25
"Unique" because America was on an upward trajectory... SMC22307 Jun 2019 #27
So what's the set of policies that can address this? BlueWI Jun 2019 #39
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