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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:19 PM Original message |
Would You Let Your 18 Year Old Daughter Travel Alone with a Friend in Europe? |
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Idealism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
1. Does she know karate? |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:20 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Actually, she does but has not been in training for a while. |
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Idealism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:35 PM Response to Reply #4 |
37. There is no age measurement of responsibility |
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norepubsin08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:02 PM Response to Reply #37 |
78. She's 18 by law she can do what she wants! |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
2. My parents let me do it. |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:21 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Yah. That was then. |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:40 PM Response to Reply #6 |
44. The IRA was blowing stuff up in Northern Ireland. |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:46 PM Response to Reply #44 |
56. yeah, I got searched by British cops in Victoria Station in 1973 |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:54 PM Response to Reply #44 |
103. I want to go to Ireland again so bad |
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FunkyLeprechaun (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 02:11 AM Response to Reply #103 |
134. That would be a bit difficult |
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HamdenRice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 08:31 AM Response to Reply #134 |
151. My Irish friends say the issue is moot. They'll all soon be part of "Europe" |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:07 PM Response to Reply #151 |
206. That wasn't the impression I got from the Irish when I was there |
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BamaGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 12:49 AM Response to Reply #151 |
220. My husband would disagree with you lol ;) |
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steaa (83 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:58 AM Response to Reply #103 |
162. Just a bit petty that! |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:19 PM Response to Reply #162 |
194. but living there still totally sucks if you're cathoilic |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:06 PM Response to Reply #194 |
205. Well, they don't count |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:03 PM Response to Reply #162 |
203. Sorry, but I'm not giving Northern Ireland any money unless it's returned to it's rightful owners |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:24 PM Response to Reply #103 |
195. Going there made me even more of a nationalist |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:05 PM Response to Reply #195 |
204. I'm already pretty hardcore about that |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:43 PM Response to Reply #6 |
50. You have a really distorted idea of the news |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:01 PM Response to Reply #6 |
77. ... |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
3. Now? NO! |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:22 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. Why? I need to know what to do with these kids when grandparents aren't around |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
5. You live someplace without crime? |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:48 PM Response to Reply #5 |
57. Not really.... The us has areas with more serious crime... but most Americans |
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DeepBlueC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:56 PM Response to Reply #57 |
70. About the crime...I don't really think so |
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marmar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:58 PM Response to Reply #70 |
74. And even the "Red Light" districts in places like Amsterdam, Hamburg and Paris are quite safe..... |
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ProudDad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:23 AM Response to Reply #74 |
122. Actually I consider upscale malls |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:07 PM Response to Reply #70 |
81. Well I was thinking more of southern europe such as Rome or Barcelona... |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:12 PM Response to Reply #81 |
83. I live in rural America |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:26 PM Response to Reply #83 |
89. A place where admittedly there are no street people... |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:49 PM Response to Reply #89 |
98. Interesting, never been to such a place |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:54 PM Response to Reply #98 |
102. Southern Fairfield County CT is a whole other place I admit... |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:12 PM Response to Reply #89 |
207. You could probably just have a chat with her about how to handle money |
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marmar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:15 PM Response to Reply #81 |
85. I don't think that's exclusive to southern Europe.... |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:27 PM Response to Reply #85 |
90. I havn't been to Geermany in twenty plus years... so I couldn't comment. |
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GoneOffShore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:48 AM Response to Reply #90 |
128. More than a little reversed now. |
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marmar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
7. FIrst off, I think it's fine as long as she's savvy....... |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:21 PM Response to Original message |
8. Let her go! What an opportunity! The big question is, do you trust her? |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
10. I did. My daughter was given a trip to Europe to visit 4 countries |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:24 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. How long ago was that? |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:27 PM Response to Reply #14 |
26. That was in 2005, the year of her graduation. |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:30 PM Response to Reply #26 |
30. omg! Wonderful!! |
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FrenchieCat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:34 PM Response to Reply #30 |
36. Hope your daughter chooses Harvard if offered! It'sTop of the line! |
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DeepBlueC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:58 PM Response to Reply #36 |
75. Cambridge in particular, Boston in general is heaven for college students |
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Cheney Killed Bambi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
11. There tends to be a lot of hysteria |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
12. It's scary but she's old enough to be going to college so maybe it would be ok? |
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Demobrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
13. She could be pulled into an alley and robbed |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
15. oh for heavens sake yes.... It sounds like the perfect adventure... |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
16. See the movie, 'Taken'! nt |
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annabanana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:25 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. I saw it... It was a stupid "24" style hyperfest... ridiculous... n/t |
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marmar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:40 PM Response to Reply #20 |
46. Agreed. If it makes more than $15 at the box office it would be a crime..... |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:52 AM Response to Reply #20 |
146. The movie Was fiction but sex trafficking in Europe isn't. She has to be Aware. |
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Just-plain-Kathy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:28 AM Response to Reply #16 |
156. I thought Taken was great. The International really stunk. |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 11:37 AM Response to Reply #156 |
167. I normally don't like movies like Taken, but they developed Liam Neeson's character |
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Just-plain-Kathy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:27 PM Response to Reply #167 |
171. I always tell my daughter, never get into a car with a stranger, or walk away alone with him... |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 01:57 PM Response to Reply #171 |
175. I understand entirely. . |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:18 PM Response to Reply #167 |
209. That's completely ridiculous... |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:16 PM Response to Reply #16 |
193. Yes, use pop culture works of fiction to determine life choices; that's what smart people do |
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Bluebear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
17. Personally, no I would not... 18 is age 10 with 8 years' experience. |
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Gman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:26 PM Response to Reply #17 |
22. Good way to put it. |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:38 PM Original message |
For some people 40 is age 10 with 30 years experience... |
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Gman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
210. I like to consider myself in that category |
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AZ Criminal JD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:34 PM Response to Reply #17 |
92. We now know how you were at 18 |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:31 PM Response to Reply #92 |
110. Deleted sub-thread |
upi402 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
18. yep, asia too n/t |
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Gman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
19. I wouldn't allow it because |
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anigbrowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:26 PM Response to Original message |
21. Sure. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:26 PM Response to Original message |
23. She's your kid ............. |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:38 PM Response to Reply #23 |
41. Yes, we talked before they offered. But, I didn't realize that they would have |
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blaze (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:04 PM Response to Reply #41 |
80. EMIT!!!! Listen to your gut!!!! |
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DeepBlueC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:16 PM Response to Reply #41 |
86. you just need a few firm rules for when they are apart |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:26 PM Response to Reply #41 |
109. Isn't it funny |
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RiverStone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #41 |
187. It's can be really tough, but sooner or later --- she will go. |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:26 PM Response to Original message |
24. Of course I would. nt |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
25. Can someone chaparone them for those days? |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:32 PM Response to Reply #25 |
33. That's what I was thinking - like a walking tour or something and then |
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robinlynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:37 PM Response to Reply #25 |
39. a chaperone for an 18 year old? I was married at that age. |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:41 PM Original message |
Tx, robinlynne. Good ideas. |
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robinlynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:54 PM Response to Original message |
68. But if they understand not to follow strangers into nightclubs, dark alleys, all the "don'ts, |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
27. She's 18. How can you "let" her do anything? |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:32 PM Response to Reply #27 |
34. lol, so she says. |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 09:21 AM Response to Reply #27 |
224. One can control the purse strings |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 12:25 PM Response to Reply #224 |
226. Not all parents bankroll college, and in this instance, the grandparents |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
28. She's 18. You don't have to "let" her do anything for her to do it. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:29 PM Response to Original message |
29. My daughter spent a semester in Rome |
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TXDemGal (600 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
31. Am I missing something here? |
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Generator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:32 PM Response to Original message |
32. Great Britain and France seriously? |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
35. Friend or boyfriend? |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:44 PM Response to Reply #35 |
52. Great tips and thanks for the feedback. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:35 PM Response to Original message |
38. Lol...helicopter parent. |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:38 PM Response to Original message |
40. Me? No. |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:38 PM Response to Original message |
42. 18? No. Too young. She or he would not have my blessing. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:25 AM Response to Reply #42 |
125. And you're the Pope |
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saltpoint (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
43. It's a great present. Let her go. Definitely. One of your duties is safety, |
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kitty1 (772 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:40 PM Response to Original message |
45. My Son and his girlfriend are off to Europe in May for 35 days... |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:41 PM Response to Original message |
47. At 18 I went away by myself and three others |
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norepubsin08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:12 PM Response to Reply #47 |
84. What a fantastic experience to have! |
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DemoTex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:41 PM Response to Original message |
48. My neice was gut-shot in Paris on her post-grad trip (from Auburn). |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:56 PM Response to Reply #48 |
104. Yeah, but that could easily happen in the US, so that's not a good reason to say no |
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DemoTex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:45 PM Response to Reply #104 |
198. Much more likely to happen here .. I agree. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:14 PM Response to Reply #198 |
208. I went to Italy with my college honors group and one of the guys got held up at gunpoint |
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DemoTex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:31 PM Response to Reply #208 |
211. I was held up at gunpoint in London in 1992. |
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blaze (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:43 PM Response to Original message |
49. Depends on your daughter, really |
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glowing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:44 PM Response to Original message |
51. Your daughter could be held up while stopping in for gas. Kidnapped while |
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rwheeler31 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:44 PM Response to Original message |
53. Do you trust the friend? |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:48 PM Original message |
Yeah, but she's very shy. My daughter is the more worldly one of the two. |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 05:36 AM Response to Original message |
138. Then it sounds OK to me |
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RevolutionStartsNow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:45 PM Response to Original message |
54. Depends on the kid... |
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Richard D (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:45 PM Response to Original message |
55. For sure |
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ogneopasno (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:48 PM Response to Original message |
58. Your daughter can get beat up on the streets of wherever it is you live as much as anywhere. If she |
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sallylou666 (135 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
59. Safer than Mexico |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:51 PM Response to Reply #59 |
65. I was having a discussion with another parent who is from Mexico. When I told him my daughter was |
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sallylou666 (135 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:54 PM Response to Reply #65 |
67. Yes, very dangerous |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:55 PM Response to Reply #67 |
69. Thanks, sallylou666, for your input and welcome to DU |
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LuckyLib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 08:00 PM Response to Reply #67 |
235. Huge generalization -- in northern border cities, particularly Tijuana and Juarez, |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
60. Hell, I travelled to Mexico by myself at that age. |
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sallylou666 (135 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:51 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Times have changed |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:57 PM Response to Reply #66 |
73. Agreed. I'm not likely to travel to Mexico any time soon. Perhaps D.F. but still... |
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ddeclue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:00 PM Response to Reply #66 |
76. Mexico isn't Western Europe...I wouldn't go to Mexico either and.. |
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ProudDad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:24 AM Response to Reply #66 |
124. Nope, it's because of the PHONY "war" on drugs. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
61. Alone with a friend is not "alone".. My son went to college in Italy |
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Myrina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
62. "Alone with a friend" - NO. With a school/ group - YES |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
63. Europe is no more dangerous than most American cities, probably less. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:51 PM Response to Original message |
64. Definitely! |
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Cronus Protagonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:56 PM Response to Original message |
71. Yes, of course! |
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walkaway (725 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 09:57 PM Response to Original message |
72. I spent six months traveling through Europe at 17 |
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40ozDonkey (730 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
79. Let her go if she's responsible, just make sure she calls. |
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Pisces (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
82. I traveled throughout Europe in my early 20's, never felt safer. |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:11 PM Response to Reply #82 |
105. So did I. |
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dana_b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:18 PM Response to Original message |
87. you know your daughter best |
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OutNow (538 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:23 PM Response to Original message |
88. YES - She will join the thousands of youth from every country |
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leftyclimber (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
91. Depends on the daughter. |
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Mind_your_head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 11:45 PM Response to Reply #91 |
216. sure...... |
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stillcool (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:40 PM Response to Original message |
93. I'm really surprised that.. |
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flyarm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:42 PM Response to Original message |
94. as a long time flight attendant I flew many college age kids to Europe |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:44 PM Response to Original message |
95. My 19 year old spent last summer overseas, alone. |
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RFKHumphreyObama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:45 PM Response to Original message |
96. As long as you reinforce proper safety procedures and guidelines they should be OK |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
97. Some people's daughters enlist and go to Iraq. Is yours raised so poorly she can't cope with Europe? |
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LibDemAlways (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
99. I wouldn't let my daughter go, but that's just me. I'm |
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Eryemil (958 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
100. Northwestern Europe is about the safest spot on Earth |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 10:53 PM Response to Original message |
101. I traveled alone in Europe when I was 19 or 20 |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:20 PM Response to Original message |
106. They're adults for crying out loud. |
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cally (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
107. Yes!! I've let my 16 year old spend days alone in Paris |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:24 PM Response to Original message |
108. Yes. In fact, I would encourage my daughter to travel overseas at that age. |
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Mind_your_head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
111. If they are 'morally grounded' and have a bit of savvy.....I say let 'em go |
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Cessna Invesco Palin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:34 PM Response to Original message |
112. The UK and France? Sure. Southern Europe? No. |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
113. let? |
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janx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:38 PM Response to Original message |
114. It depends upon the friend! My daughter worked and lived in Brasil |
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JI7 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:40 PM Response to Original message |
115. she is 18 years old, she doesn't need your permission |
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tammywammy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
116. Yes, they can stay safe. |
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Adsos Letter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:19 AM Response to Reply #116 |
120. I went when I was 18... |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-06-09 11:50 PM Response to Original message |
117. No, absolutely not. |
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tabasco (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 03:53 AM Response to Reply #117 |
137. Do you make life decisons based on movies? |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 01:36 PM Response to Reply #137 |
173. Click.... |
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Posteritatis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:12 PM Response to Reply #137 |
192. Depressingly common these days, too |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:10 AM Response to Original message |
118. Taken is fiction. Let her go. |
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Adsos Letter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:14 AM Response to Original message |
119. My answer would be yes, and for the following reasons... |
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ProudDad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:21 AM Response to Original message |
121. It's safer in any city in GB and France |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:23 AM Response to Original message |
123. Yes. |
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Hippo_Tron (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:27 AM Response to Original message |
126. I think a lot of it depends on what city, what country |
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NYC Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:42 AM Response to Original message |
127. She doesn't need your permission, so you can either |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:51 AM Response to Original message |
129. She's 18 |
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prayin4rain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
130. Depends where in Europe. |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 01:17 AM Response to Original message |
131. My parents didn't get to make those kinds of decisions for me when I was 18 |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 01:56 AM Response to Original message |
132. Buy yourself a ticket and go with them . . . |
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WillieW (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 02:00 AM Response to Original message |
133. Of course I would let her travel to Europe. She will not be alone anyway |
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Imagevision (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 02:13 AM Response to Original message |
135. I disagree, see the movie taken - key in "Taken" on youTube |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 11:28 AM Response to Reply #135 |
164. It's a movie, for pete's sake. |
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Hannah Bell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 02:34 AM Response to Original message |
136. my cousin & her 2 friends just did it. no problems at all. they loved it. |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 06:37 AM Response to Original message |
139. Thats not really "alone" in Europe. I say yes. |
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dcindian (881 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 06:46 AM Response to Original message |
140. Yes I would even encourage her. |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 06:56 AM Response to Original message |
141. Interrailing is common - my sister did it. |
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madaboutharry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 06:59 AM Response to Original message |
142. No |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:02 AM Response to Original message |
143. When I was nineteen |
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illuminaughty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:09 AM Response to Original message |
144. I went to Cairo, Egypt at 18....alone...had only a name of |
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Autumn Colors (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:26 AM Response to Original message |
145. She's a legal adult -- there is no question of "letting" her do anything (nt) |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:58 AM Response to Original message |
147. My daughter spent her fall semester in Tanzania at 19. |
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tekisui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 08:00 AM Response to Original message |
148. Yes! It's the opportunity of a lifetime. Make sure she uses her head. |
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ejpoeta (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
149. she's an adult at 18, right?? i wouldn't pay for any trip to europe, |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 08:05 AM Response to Original message |
150. Does she go unescorted here in the US? Let her go! |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 08:56 AM Response to Original message |
152. Nope. Our daughter went at age 21 with a friend. |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:15 PM Response to Reply #152 |
169. Grandparents won a trip through Grandpa's work - and their plans are set and paid for |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
153. I traveled Europe alone and had NO problems at all. |
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Redneck Socialist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
154. Do you trust your daughter? Is she responsible? |
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ThomWV (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:21 AM Response to Original message |
155. Hell no, put her in a tower and protect her virginity until the fair maden is rescued by a Prince |
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Just-plain-Kathy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:31 AM Response to Original message |
157. I'm sorry but I wouldn't let her go. Americans aren't well liked right now. ..n/t |
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Stevenmarc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:42 AM Original message |
You don't get to Europe much, do you. |
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Just-plain-Kathy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
163. Hey snot-man, you don't have a teenage daughter do you? |
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Stevenmarc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 11:29 AM Response to Reply #163 |
165. I don't have a problem with concern |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 02:02 PM Response to Original message |
177. Maybe. But the last time I was in Amsterdam, . . . |
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Mind_your_head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 07:22 PM Response to Reply #157 |
231. lol - idjiout! |
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DireStrike (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:37 AM Response to Original message |
158. Yes yes yes! |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:42 AM Response to Original message |
159. She's 18. Would you let an 18-year-old son? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:46 AM Response to Original message |
160. She's 18. Way I See It, It's Not Your Decision To Make In The First Place, With All Due Respect. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:51 AM Response to Original message |
161. I did it when I was 20.... |
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JSK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
166. My daughter traveled ALONE from Tuscany, Italy to a suburb of London |
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saltpoint (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 11:39 AM Response to Original message |
168. Ask her to please keep a good head on her shoulders and then send her |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
170. My niece at age 20 was fine |
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comrade snarky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 12:52 PM Response to Original message |
172. Let her go if she's not an idiot. |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 01:42 PM Response to Original message |
174. Yes, I would but I would try to explain the hazards to them first. They will |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
176. Except for the unescorted trip home, I'd probably do it. |
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comrade snarky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 02:35 PM Response to Reply #176 |
179. Really? |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 03:26 PM Response to Reply #179 |
181. Do what you want. |
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comrade snarky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 03:42 PM Response to Reply #181 |
183. Cell phones work there too |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 06:15 PM Response to Reply #183 |
190. I'm talking about if something happened. |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 05:11 PM Response to Reply #181 |
188. I'm curious to know what you think they might do too |
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comrade snarky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 05:32 PM Response to Reply #188 |
189. There is so much fear around being in another country |
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donco6 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 06:18 PM Response to Reply #188 |
191. I'm not talking about getting fucking LOST on the way to the airport. |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:31 PM Response to Reply #191 |
197. Getting lost is just what it sounded like you were talking about |
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comrade snarky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 01:56 PM Response to Reply #191 |
228. Gee, So sorry I misunderstood what you were taking about |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 09:34 PM Response to Reply #176 |
212. I never had a problem finding my way to the airport |
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quiller4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 02:23 PM Response to Original message |
178. They are safer in many Western European cities |
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B Calm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 02:38 PM Response to Original message |
180. When I was 18, I was in Vietnam. . . |
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Mind_your_head (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 07:36 PM Response to Reply #180 |
232. You probably grew up "too quick" there, I'm sure.... |
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Jakes Progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
182. Back in the late seventies there was a fad |
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dustbunnie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 03:53 PM Response to Original message |
184. Yes. I would let my child go. |
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mainer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 04:02 PM Response to Original message |
185. It'll be safer there than most of the U.S. (Except maybe Marseilles) |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 04:05 PM Response to Original message |
186. France and England? Depending on where, yes. Or no. |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
196. What a great gift! |
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globalvillage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 07:57 PM Response to Original message |
199. Yes. With preconditions. |
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Geek_Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 08:20 PM Response to Original message |
200. If your daughter and her friend are both smart and responsible |
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TransitJohn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 08:49 PM Response to Original message |
201. If she's 18 what do parents have to do with it? |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 08:57 PM Response to Original message |
202. when I was 18 I was in the military |
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jannyk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
213. Sure. We bought our daughter and a friend tix to Paris for her |
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TuxedoKat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 10:18 PM Response to Original message |
214. I'd let her go |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-07-09 11:35 PM Response to Original message |
215. I don't know that she's any safer on the streets of the US than Europe. |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 12:02 AM Response to Reply #215 |
217. whew |
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flygal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 07:04 AM Response to Reply #217 |
223. that's the truth |
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AZBlue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 10:56 PM Response to Reply #217 |
236. You're exactly right. |
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Occam Bandage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 12:05 AM Response to Original message |
218. When I was 19, I took my 18-year-old girlfriend to China with me for a month. |
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ecstatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 12:34 AM Response to Original message |
219. It depends on how street savvy they are |
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BamaGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 01:00 AM Response to Original message |
221. I would probably not object |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 04:59 AM Response to Original message |
222. I just spent 6 months in the UK alone - I was 23 |
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WolverineDG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 09:41 AM Response to Original message |
225. What's with this "let" business? She's an adult & can do what she wants. nt |
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AmyCamus (371 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
227. If she's 18, it's her choice. |
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LNM (538 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
229. Absolutely let them go. |
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Hanse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 02:21 PM Response to Original message |
230. For fuck's sake, cut the cord. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 07:47 PM Response to Original message |
233. They are not going alone, but with grandpa and grandma. |
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babythunder (342 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-08-09 07:54 PM Response to Original message |
234. I went to Europe the first time when I was 18 |
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