Reply #17: Reading the answers so far I agree... BUT

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on the other hand we don't know how the guy behaved. Yes, there are other ways to have sex - but does he know or care? What would you say if after marriage the woman had absolutely no interest in sex, for instance?

And while it's true that there are many kids waiting to be adopted: Adoption is always a major decision and not an easy one. Finding out after marriage that if you want to have children you have to adopt them is not exactly what every woman has been waiting for. If he couldn't trust her enough before marriage to tell her about his problems she doesn't need him. Quit whining, guys :)

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