Reply #7: Yes, I know what you're saying. I found my self to be very, very over-

[radwriter0555]

protective of my daughter, always concerned about BOYS.

What I've since learned (away from the USA) most everywhere else doesn't have the same types of fears that Americans impose on their children, myself included BIG time... here (in France) it's normal for boys and girls to be friends, or to be boyrfriend and girlfriends, rarely with any kissing or even hand holding, just companionship.

I learned that I've been either over-reacting or I was properly concerned about boys in the US... not sure I want to pick which one.

I am still startled to see young teens kissing each other with greeting, boys and girls alike. Boys and girls interact freely with each other, there is no 'standing across the room" staring at each other.

Here, the fathers (and mothers) step back and let their kids interact, it's a whole new experience for me. The boys aren't anywhere NEAR as rough or rude as the ones in the US. Boys and girls are a lot more secure around each other and adults.

I have a LOT to learn.

Dang, have I got a lot to learn.