DU Parents: Co-sleeping....yes or no?

[malta blue]

Do you, or did you allow your child(ren) to sleep with you? At what age does it seem inappropriate? Is there a gender difference?

I need some opinions. Little MB has always slept in her own bed in my house, but her dad has always allowed her to sleep with him at his house. She is now 8 years old and I found this to be inappropriate at this age - NOT because I think he is some sort of pervert but because of the stigma attached to it, someone might call CPS on him.

She said she does not sleep in his bed with him anymore, but every Friday night that she is with him, they still open up the sofabed and sleep in it.

Any thoughts?