49. It's certainly not always forgivable. It's probably mostly not forgivable.
I don't think you should in any way blame yourself for not forgiving.
Every situation is so very personal and unique. The only time I've ever been cheated on (to my knowledge) was in my marriage that was a trainwreck in every other way as well. The cheating was just another brick in the wall. Sadly, the abusive marriage continued for a few more years after that.
I do hope that you and your beautiful kids can move past the toxicity and bask in the love that is still there for each other. :hug:
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