Reply #15: she'll let you know . . .

[OneBlueSky]

almost two years ago, I was going through the same thing with my companion of 16 years . . . two years prior he had a bout of vestibular disease that left him pretty shakey at times, and sometimes even unable to walk . . . but he was still eating well, and responding to affection . . . I knew it was time when he stopped eating and just stopped responding to me altogeher . . . it was the hardest decision I've ever had to make, but I knew it was the right thing to to and the right time to do it . . .

good luck . . . remember, she knows she's loved, and that will never change . . .