Reply #7: Here is a site that may help

[fight4my3sons]

http://www.october15th.com/

You are being a great friend. If her husband does not want to talk, be there for her. She needs to get this out. I still have difficulty with my losses and I have had three children since. You just don't get over it. I also had to have 2 d&c's for one of my miscarriages because of tissue that did not come out during the first procedure (according to the doctor my cervix did not open all the way during the first operation). It was horrible and it just does not leave your mind. I think you are right about her needing another grief counselor. There is no way that the one she is going to now is going to help her if she doesn't like her.

:hug: :hug: for you and your friend.