Reply #15: there's nothing as expensive as regret

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I was in this same situation 30 years ago. I was working with a great guy. He was in a crappy relationship and so was I. We lived in Seattle. The best part of my life was the time I spent at work with him. He never said how he felt and neither did I. Then he moved to Denver and we kept in touch over the phone and mail. I wanted to visit on one of my trips back east and he was hesitant because I was still involved with the asshole I had been with. I moved to New York and we lost touch with each other. One day I was thinking about him and tried finding him on Google and got lucky. He was in Denver. I emailed him and then we started calling each other he was alone and I was alone and so I told him how I had felt about him all those years ago. To make it short we are now together in western New York and the last 7 years with him have been the best of my life. I regret the 30 years we lost just because we were afraid to tell each other how we felt.