Reply #41: I used the word "demeaning",originally because that is a word you had used

[Vanje]

here:http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=132&topic_id=8036794&mesg_id=8036863

The plain truth is, People dont want un-asked for advice. Even if its well meant.

I'm a battle-scarred old dyke, probably your granny's age. I live in rural mother-fucking Idaho , in the reddest county of the reddest state of this country.
I just dont need a stranger, even a well-meaning one, to tell me how to handle myself. If I wasnt already pretty good at it, I wouldnt be here typing now.