Reply #9: How many OTHER babies could they have had

[HockeyMom]

if his wife had lived? Do they every consider that? Maybe that one was meant to be lost so others could be born. That is how I look at it having had an ectopic pg. My daughter would never have been born had that other one lived, or if I had been allowed to DIE along with it.

Maybe there is a grand scheme or plan in this universe, god/goddess/mother nature/whatever, that we humans, including all these "christians", have no clue what it's all above.