Reply #40: Gay people get coerced into those relationships.

[HillbillyBob]

I was to trying to be straight. I too told her what it was about about 6 months after we broke up. We remained friends for years and years. She got married had kids, divorced and remarried and moved so I lost track of her.
I dated one girl who it turns out was doing the same thing. This was highschool in the late 70s West Virginia. I did no sleep with them, they were both virgins, I was, but after I figured it out that I liked guys..i wasn't for long, but I did try to keep a low profile.
I had been harassed as a sissy. Though I was not particularly fem, I rode a motorcyle.
We try to force our selves to be straight like if we pretended hard enough maybe it would change us.
Now I have known some gay guys that like to seduce straight men..now that I find to be molestation.
I have known many gay men in the south that stay in marriages, too afraid to be found out and the shame and humiliation that is heaped up on them.
Not all that long ago and still sometimes we are murdered for being gay. I know that happens all over,
but seems to be especially true in the South where the fundys really put the mental in fundamental.
I know that not all fundamental Christians are that way, but too many are I like to call them Kreestians as they have more in common with KKK, hell many are members in good standing with the kkk.