Reply #20: A collective thanks to you all....

[SacredCow]

Every one of you have brought up valid points, or just offered your vibes and I appreciate both.

I never got drunk- The rest of yesterday was wierd. His visit to the doctor was mostly just to set things up. He never actually saw the doctor- just assistants, but they drew blood for literally dozens of tests and set him up to see the doctor in a few weeks (when all of the results are back). When he got home, he seemed almost at peace with it but the rest of the day was up and down. We had some close friends come over for dinner (it had been previously planned) and he apparently decided to start telling people immediately, which is good- certainly better than letting the rumor mill do the spreading.

I'm still vascillating from scared, to seething with anger, to worried, etc... and it's driving me insane.

I have more to say, but I'm at work and really need to try to get productive. Thanks again, DU'ers- I love each and every one of you! :grouphug: