Reply #60: Wow, I'm sure she wishes you were there to tell her what to do

[Samurai_Writer]

DON'T LET STRANGE MEN INTO YOUR HOME Get to know a person first

How long does it take to get to 'know' someone? She had done the responsible thing and had him checked out before agreeing to the date.

DON'T INTRODUCE PORN ON THE FIRST DATE especially if you're in your home with a man you don't know

Who the fuck introduced porn? It was left out on accident. It's not like she said "oooh, let's watch this porn, OK?"

DO NOT TOLERATE DISRESPECT If this is how he acts on the first date, when a decent man would be on his best behavior, it won't get any better

Agreed, but many women are taught to 'be nice'. It's hard to overcome that built-in behaviour after years of training to act a certain way.

DON'T LET A STRANGE, RUDE MAN RUB YOUR BODY because there are a lot of perverts out there, and women in America get raped every day

Wow, this smacks so much of 'blame the victim' I can't even garner a response.


FIGHT BACK AND CALL THE POLICE

The police will tell you, if you feel like fighting back would make it worse, DON'T FIGHT BACK. Do what you have to do to survive the incident. Even if it means NOT fighting back. A woman cannot safely fight back in every situation.