Reply #1: I hope that he finds an instant and effortless healing.

[Fire Walk With Me]

I've experienced the getting angry and lashing out at people's weak points thing- it's from self-rejection, which then seeks to harm that same rejected characteristic in others.

The only balm that I've found for that is to admit that there is an issue, to become willing to name it, and to honestly examine it, and to then release it. It's only as bad as we ourselves make it.

Edit for spelling.