Reply #234: According to the story on her I saw the other day, she lives in Riverside

[SoCalDem]

her house looked pretty darned nice, and I can understand why she does not want to "lose" it.. But the sad truth here, Patricia, is this.. You have been playing house..living in a house you could not afford.

Separations & divorces almost always demand a sharp curtailment of spending and a rather quick decline in living "style"..

It sucks..but those are the facts.

She may NEVER EVER work again for $70K, so she needs to release that dream, and concentrate of getting ANY job she can.

Instead of her mother renting her house and moving in with Patricia...Patricia should have sold everything she could, and should have filed for bankruptcy and moved in with her mother...and saved every penny she had and could make...for about a year..

When everything you "have" , has a payment due on it every month, you do not OWN anything..

She would be doing her kids a favor by not prolonging the inevitable..

When she is spending everything she takes in to just pay the INTEREST-only payment on "her" house, she might as well stuff it into the garbage disposal..