You don't have to be a woman or "henpecked" to support equal rights for women...

[arbusto_baboso]

You don't have to be African-American to support racial equality.

You don't have to be gay to support marriage equality.

In fact, you can be like me, a heterosexual guy who is still vaguely uncomfortable when viewing Brokeback Mountain, but refuses to impose standards of his own discomfort upon other human beings.

That's the real problem with the H8ers: they assume the "ick factor" they have regarding gays means that gays must be perverted, evil "abominations". They refuse to consider that it might just be their own internal limitations that make them feel that way.